Spanking Guide Adult Dad/Son Style Relationships
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This is Part One Only - More To Come
This particular piece is subjective in that it is based on those relationships that are Dad/Son and practice real domestic discipline. You may be very surprised to learn but there are many real Dads and Boys out there in these real relationships. This has been written from physical and emotional reality, all I have tried to do is describe the emotions, process and physical aspects in a manner that is not over the top or fantasy. Enjoy.
Introduction
There are many style of relationship in the male to male spanking venue, such as Teacher and Pupil, Uncle and Nephew or indeed just friends spanking one another for fun. It is also extremely important to note that male to male spanking is not exclusive to same gender partners and indeed many straight or bi-sexual men enjoy spanking with other men without the need for sexual gratification. Some men may perhaps be married or in a long term committed relationship with a member of the opposite sex, and in the majority of cases this is not an issue whether they wish to be spanked by or want to spank other men.
This particular piece of writing is concerned with what many see as one of the most gratifying experience in the male spanking scene, being domestic discipline and specifically in the Dad/Boy role. The reason I use Dad/Boy as opposed to Dad/Son (While being both is entirely possible) is to emphasize the fact that most men whom desire the role of spankee in this relationship are indeed boys. A boy in this sense is any spankee, regardless of age height or any other physical attributes that knows he needs discipline from a firm handed man and in this case one who can act as a father figure, in essence his Dad. These Boys are not ill, and nor is there anything wrong with them, put simply they desire discipline not simply as punishment, but because they recognize a need in themselves and they know discipline is good for them. In some cases immaturity plays a part here, again perfectly understandable and Dads knows how to both nurture and deal with immature boys when they are naughty.
It is true that all boys are Naughty, at some point they will break one of Dads rules, disobey him or get up to other mischief he knows is wrong and of course Dad must take his boy in hand and administer effective punishment. Corporal punishment (which includes spanking) is by far the most practiced form of discipline and yet before we even discuss physical chastisement there are matters of equal importance that go hand in hand when it comes to tending to his bottom. Corporal punishment is very suited to boy’s bottoms.
Clothing
What does it matter what he wears for spankings?
It matters a great deal, both from a preparation and emotional perspective. A boy permitted to wear his standard slacks or even his jeans for punishment will feel quite grown up and of course Dad has all those buttons or zips to deal with, before removing the belt that holds them up and then finally lowering them.
If possible it is best to keep the boy in shorts, these can be of the popular casual variety, there is no need for anything special such as ‘school shorts’ unless Dad has something specific in mind. Regardless of taste the shorts must be elasticated no buttons or zip as if you have a boy over your lap they are easy to take down in that position without fumbling around at zips or buttons. Some Dads prefer to take down the boy’s shorts before spanking him, again nothing wrong with that, but it is more effective and humiliating if they are taken down in the juvenile over the knee position.
If Dad allows the boy to wear long pants or jeans, another solution is to have him change into specific clothing before his spankings, this may be Shorts and Tee or perhaps a Sleeper Suit (with rear flap) or maybe something as simple as sweat pants, it is of course Dads choice.
‘Alright Junior, get to your room and change into your spanking kit’
These words or similar are sure to get his attention as well as creating a flushed face.
Preperation
At this point the naughty boy has changed and is ready to be spanked, well wishful thinking Son! Take your time, there is no hurry, a spanking should be remembered and not just from the pain in his bottom but emotionally too.
If you intend on taking his shorts down while he is over your lap, give him some immediate thinking time, lead him to a corner (or wall will suffice) either by his ear or arm and stand him there. Before you leave, give him some hard stinging swats. On the other hand if his shorts are coming down before he goes over your knees, then again take him to the corner, but first of all take his shorts down, in this way he will feel very juvenile being led to a corner with his shorts at his knees or ankles. Administer swats. The advantage here is that when you call him to you, he must come to you in the same humiliating way.
It is also recommended that a good sturdy chair, preferably armless and straight backed be at hand for his spankings or a stool. Not only does it provide comfort to Dad and stability for Junior, but it can be interesting watching the boy place it where you decide (especially if his shorts are down already).
If you are taking the naughty boys shorts or underpants down over your lap, then it’s time to begin his spanking, if it is to be bare from the start then it’s time to strip those undies down.
Again take your time; he will be very embarrassed when he feels your fingers peeling down his underpants. Take them down to just below his knees, and have a good look at him. You should see a naughty boy standing in front of you with shorts at his ankles and underwear around his knees. Perfect.
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Interesting piece, can't wait for the next chapter.
Just on the clothing/preparation note, one thing I always debating with myself is that whether it is more humiliating for the boy to have to remove his own pants in front of the spanker or having the spanking yank the boys pants down, both seem to be embarrassing/humiliating for the boy in their own aspects. Another interesting preparation step might be that the boy have to present himself to the spanker and have him inspect his pre-spanking attire to ensure that it is what the spanker would liked?
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Yes I think it is down to each boy on the embaressment level, for example I find it both exciting and embaressing having my jeans unfastened and my briefs slipped down prior to going over the knee. I do think though in a relationship defiately there should be certain clothes worn specifcally for spankings, mine is sweat pants and briefs and white tee but reserved for my maintenance spanking sessions, other than that it doesnt matter what I have on as I always get spanked on my bare bottom.
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Great guide! I am thinking of showing this to a guy I am seeing. We aren't currently in a serious relationship, romantically or dad/son-wise, but we have had discipline in play. Do you think I should show him this guide? My fear is that I might scare him off if it comes across too weird… I still am not sure how he feels about it since I have only known him for two months, and I am the first person he has spanked. He was into the discipline we had though; I was being a little bratty, and I feel it saved our relationship from turning vile.
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I genuinely would be careful here and I think it is best to discuss, kind of test the water …..
It depends on the type of discipline relationship you both are interested in, for example whether it is purely role play or a serious domestic discipline
lifestyle.I did find it interesting that you mentioned you had been bratty and discipline may have saved your relationship from going sour, if that is the case and
you feel personally you need discipline then of course it can be very hot and spicy as well as keeping you on the straight and narrow.In these instances either, it just happens nartuarlly as part of your relationship or you discuss it one to one ....
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I love to get a good spank from my 11year older husband bend over hes knees…. :hug2:
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Hi! i am Javi; nice to meet everybody
Recently i contacted a older man who wants to try this with me so when i finish the reading properly ( now i m on a hurry) … guess will toss some questions
Thank you for taking the time to do this guide -
What a valuable resource this is! Thanks!
Now I just have to find me a stern daddy.
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Hi there,
Does anyone know where I can get a Sleeper Suit with rear flap for my son?
I really like the one that the son i wearing in "FamilyDick - Sleepy Movie night":
https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=9ab1b1e6b80ae9b27c2d2951d0a604e3adfbbb048d72ba95
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Great post!
