Great guide!  I am thinking of showing this to a guy I am seeing.  We aren't currently in a serious relationship, romantically or dad/son-wise, but we have had discipline in play.  Do you think I should show him this guide?  My fear is that I might scare him off if it comes across too weird…  I still am not sure how he feels about it since I have only known him for two months, and I am the first person he has spanked.  He was into the discipline we had though; I was being a little bratty, and I feel it saved our relationship from turning vile.