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      Zeitgeist last edited by

      Link: https://www.advocate.com/current-issue/2017/3/03/shame-free-tips-how-be-better-bottom

      Bottoming is fantastic, and more people should open their minds (and their legs) because with the right preparation and the right person, the experience is mindblowingly good. Use plenty of lube and have faith.

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        spam17 last edited by

        @Zeitgeist:

        Link: https://www.advocate.com/current-issue/2017/3/03/shame-free-tips-how-be-better-bottom

        Bottoming is fantastic, and more people should open their minds (and their legs) because with the right preparation and the right person, the experience is mindblowingly good. Use plenty of lube and have faith.

        :afr:

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        • everyman
          everyman last edited by

          It does not usually hurt. Even the first time with a school mate when we didn’t know what we were doing wasn’t bad, but then we used over half a tube of lub. It was uncomfortable briefly but soon turned into a great feeling.  Just need to relax. If it is a very thick long one I find it better to straddle the guy and lower myself onto it a my rate. Once it is in He can flip me over and pound away without pain just that great feeling one gets.  Once the first guy cums in your aass the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

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            spam17 last edited by

            @everyman:

            It does not usually hurt. Even the first time with a school mate when we didn’t know what we were doing wasn’t bad, but then we used over half a tube of lub. It was uncomfortable briefly but soon turned into a great feeling.  Just need to relax. If it is a very thick long one I find it better to straddle the guy and lower myself onto it a my rate. Once it is in He can flip me over and pound away without pain just that great feeling one gets.  Once the first guy cums in your aass the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

            The rest?

            How many do you have in mind?

            :cheesy2:

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            • everyman
              everyman last edited by

              @spam17:

              @everyman:

              It does not usually hurt. Even the first time with a school mate when we didn’t know what we were doing wasn’t bad, but then we used over half a tube of lub. It was uncomfortable briefly but soon turned into a great feeling.  Just need to relax. If it is a very thick long one I find it better to straddle the guy and lower myself onto it a my rate. Once it is in He can flip me over and pound away without pain just that great feeling one gets.  Once the first guy cums in your aass the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

              The rest?

              How many do you have in mind?

              :cheesy2:

              Whoever is there

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                spam17 last edited by

                @everyman:

                @spam17:

                @everyman:

                It does not usually hurt. Even the first time with a school mate when we didn’t know what we were doing wasn’t bad, but then we used over half a tube of lub. It was uncomfortable briefly but soon turned into a great feeling.  Just need to relax. If it is a very thick long one I find it better to straddle the guy and lower myself onto it a my rate. Once it is in He can flip me over and pound away without pain just that great feeling one gets.  Once the first guy cums in your aass the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

                The rest?

                How many do you have in mind?

                :cheesy2:

                Whoever is there

                Btw You included your answer in my quote..

                You should fix it..  ;/)

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                  jason0126 last edited by

                  In my case, no.

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                    motri last edited by

                    without  prep: GOD YES
                    with prep: its okay. i'm like in the heat of the moment "Yeah put it in me" and when he does i'm like "Slow down bitch it hurts…..this is not as fun as porn make it looks"

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                      Zeitgeist last edited by

                      @everyman:

                      the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

                      Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

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                        motri last edited by

                        @Zeitgeist:

                        @everyman:

                        the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

                        Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

                        PREACH!!! cheap lube is better than no lube. your assholes will thank us.

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                          Zeitgeist last edited by

                          @motri:

                          @Zeitgeist:

                          @everyman:

                          the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

                          Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

                          PREACH!!! cheap lube is better than no lube. your assholes will thank us.

                          And please don't use spit. That is the worst alternative for lube.

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                            motri last edited by

                            @Zeitgeist:

                            @motri:

                            @Zeitgeist:

                            @everyman:

                            the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

                            Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

                            PREACH!!! cheap lube is better than no lube. your assholes will thank us.

                            And please don't use spit. That is the worst alternative for lube.

                            YAAASSS absolutely does nothing.

                            you can try cooking oils which are safer….just make sure your partner or you dont have allergies to it.

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                              spam17 last edited by

                              @Zeitgeist:

                              @motri:

                              @Zeitgeist:

                              @everyman:

                              the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

                              Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

                              PREACH!!! cheap lube is better than no lube. your assholes will thank us.

                              And please don't use spit. That is the worst alternative for lube.

                              ^-^

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                              • SaltNPepaLvr
                                SaltNPepaLvr last edited by

                                I have used spit a few times when there were no alternatives available. A good rim job beforehand can be nice as well, and relaxes a guy who isn't used to bottoming. I had a long term friend who refused to bottom for months, but once my tongue was inside him he knew what kind of pleasure that area could deliver, and soon loved to ride me every time we met. He was the first man I rimmed, coincidentally. I think I wanted to fuck him so bad that I was willing to try anything. Now I love to rim a guy I'm into, whether he's a bottom or not, with cleanliness naturally being a prerequisite (a shower beforehand can't hurt).

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                                  burgercat last edited by

                                  I envy those who enjoys bottoming. I just cant get myself relaxed enough for penetration. Hurts so much everytime.

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                                    motri last edited by

                                    @burgercat:

                                    I envy those who enjoys bottoming. I just cant get myself relaxed enough for penetration. Hurts so much everytime.

                                    same

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                                    • Z
                                      Zeitgeist last edited by

                                      @burgercat:

                                      I envy those who enjoys bottoming. I just cant get myself relaxed enough for penetration. Hurts so much everytime.

                                      Bottoming is like riding a bike, tbh: the more that you try to do it, the more experience you will get, and the more relaxed you will get… and you'll be able to enjoy the experience.

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                                        spam17 last edited by

                                        @Zeitgeist:

                                        @burgercat:

                                        I envy those who enjoys bottoming. I just cant get myself relaxed enough for penetration. Hurts so much everytime.

                                        Bottoming is like riding a bike, tbh: the more that you try to do it, the more experience you will get, and the more relaxed you will get… and you'll be able to enjoy the experience.

                                        ;D

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                                          zhouyinting last edited by

                                          It's not hurting if you're ready

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                                            spam17 last edited by

                                            Bottoming really shouldn't hurt so much though.

                                            If it really hurts then something is wrong.

                                            If you get too overwhelmed, take a break and take some deep breaths until you're ready to try again.

                                            ;D

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