"Becoming" bottom
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Hi all!
Since I've started having sex with men, I have been top. However, I have always been curious about being a bottom. Guys I have sex with seem to have a waaay better time than I do being top and I feel that sex will be more enjoyable if I can be vers.
However, I have tried a dildo (with looots of lub) and it is rarely pleasurable :blownose:. Although little by little I am learning to relax, I feel that I am not quite there yet.
Any suggestion will be highly appreciated!Thanks!
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muscle relaxers could help you. give them a shot
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enjoy rush :cheers:
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Never really thought about muscle relaxers, thanks for the idea!
And I DO enjoy rush… when being top xD -
If it isn't pleasurable for you, don't FORCE it. Period. That simple. ::)
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If it isn't pleasurable for you, don't FORCE it. Period. That simple. ::)
I thought of that. Maybe some people are just not bottom for whatever reason. Just like that. I also thought this is a matter of not being relaxed enough.
But anyway, it is always a good idea to ask other people like you guys! -
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Extremely high doses can cause the potentially fatal ‘methaemoglobinaemia’ whereby the blood is unable to carry oxygen to cells in the body (similar to what happens during Carbon Monoxide Poisoning).
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Because Poppers cause blood pressure to drop and heart rate to rise, their use is riskier for people with glaucoma (high blood pressure in the eye) or breathing,heart or blood pressure irregularities.
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The use of Poppers after taking drugs such as Viagra is dangerous as it can cause blood pressure to drop to dangerous, potentially fatal, levels.
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Can cause eye damage or blindness because of blood flow decreasing to the eyes.
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wow.
That is a whole lot of VERY useful information. :cheers:
My boyfriend is bottom, but I am sure I can get him to top me. And I actually know quite well where to "hit" with my dick to give him pleasure, so maybe I can apply that to myself (or give him directions so he can do it to me…).
Thank you so much for the time you have invested writing all those paragraphs, man, thay seem really helpful.Cheers!
