An America man

fonon

I'm not from America, an American man came to my country and we matched on tinder, we never met cause he left before we can, we talked on the phone and added each other on social media, he is extremely interested in me, to the point that in his mind we are already in a relationship, promising me love and a marriage and a good life, which is a dream of mine. but how realistic is this. I'm very confused. PS: He's Nerdy, kind and cute which is my type.

youngavenger

how long have you been talking? what sort of offers have been made? what has he asked for in return? if you've only spoken over the internet many things may not be 100% on the up and up. Does he have friends and or family that you have also spoken to on his social media?

Nivalwolf

There are gay guys on Tinder!? :afr:

kenjysn1

@fonon:

I'm not from America, an American man came to my country and we matched on tinder, we never met cause he left before we can, we talked on the phone and added each other on social media, he is extremely interested in me, to the point that in his mind we are already in a relationship, promising me love and a marriage and a good life, which is a dream of mine. but how realistic is this. I'm very confused. PS: He's Nerdy, kind and cute which is my type.

you can't believe the promise from the net, marriage is not a kidding, if someone said it so easy, i think that must be a cheater

obras62

I am an American living in Chile.
I have seen and heard this happen many times.
Several of my friends were told many things and yet when my friends tried to get the relationship going, there were always reason why it couldn't.
I am not saying it can't happen because I am living in Chile for this very reason.

Before the Social media sites and the sex apps there were places to post your profile and find guys to chat with my MSN messenger and yahoo Messenger, not the best at that time but we cold talk.

Long story after talking for many months, i came for a visit and eventually decided to come live here.
We are no longer a couple but he and his family are still family to me.

Bottom line, Just don't go 'Head over heels" until time has passed.

Good luck

kenjysn1

@obras62:

I am an American living in Chile.
I have seen and heard this happen many times.
Several of my friends were told many things and yet when my friends tried to get the relationship going, there were always reason why it couldn't.
I am not saying it can't happen because I am living in Chile for this very reason.

Before the Social media sites and the sex apps there were places to post your profile and find guys to chat with my MSN messenger and yahoo Messenger, not the best at that time but we cold talk.

Long story after talking for many months, i came for a visit and eventually decided to come live here.
We are no longer a couple but he and his family are still family to me.

Bottom line, Just don't go 'Head over heels" until time has passed.

Good luck

wow, u are so lucky.

obras62

@kenjysn1:

@obras62:

I am an American living in Chile.
I have seen and heard this happen many times.
Several of my friends were told many things and yet when my friends tried to get the relationship going, there were always reason why it couldn't.
I am not saying it can't happen because I am living in Chile for this very reason.

Before the Social media sites and the sex apps there were places to post your profile and find guys to chat with my MSN messenger and yahoo Messenger, not the best at that time but we cold talk.

Long story after talking for many months, i came for a visit and eventually decided to come live here.
We are no longer a couple but he and his family are still family to me.

Bottom line, Just don't go 'Head over heels" until time has passed.

Good luck

wow, u are so lucky.

I guess I am.

I am happy in my new country.
Thanks

kenjysn1

@obras62:

@kenjysn1:

@obras62:

I am an American living in Chile.
I have seen and heard this happen many times.
Several of my friends were told many things and yet when my friends tried to get the relationship going, there were always reason why it couldn't.
I am not saying it can't happen because I am living in Chile for this very reason.

Before the Social media sites and the sex apps there were places to post your profile and find guys to chat with my MSN messenger and yahoo Messenger, not the best at that time but we cold talk.

Long story after talking for many months, i came for a visit and eventually decided to come live here.

We are no longer a couple but he and his family are still family to me.

Bottom line, Just don't go 'Head over heels" until time has passed.

Good luck

wow, u are so lucky.

I guess I am.

I am happy in my new country.
Thanks

I find my partner at the website of college forum, and we met at the forest for our first time, We dont like each other for that first moment, At that day we talk alot about our study and major, finally we have had a sex. after that day I find that I am falling love with him, I breakup with my girl friend several months later, and have a relationship with my male partner in very privacy status(bcos we will be in danger if someone knows that), It's been decade of years past, I still love him very much, we are planning to move to a new country that country use English as recent language, so very happy to hear u are English teacher, we are practice our English in our daily life.

obras62

I find my partner at the website of college forum, and we met at the forest for our first time, We dont like each other for that first moment, At that day we talk alot about our study and major, finally we have had a sex. after that day I find that I am falling love with him, I breakup with my girl friend several months later, and have a relationship with my male partner in very privacy status(bcos we will be in danger if someone knows that), It's been decade of years past, I still love him very much, we are planning to move to a new country that country use English as recent language, so very happy to hear u are English teacher, we are practice our English in our daily life.

I am happy for you.

If you ever want to practice English I will be happy to help.

kenjysn1

@obras62:

I find my partner at the website of college forum, and we met at the forest for our first time, We dont like each other for that first moment, At that day we talk alot about our study and major, finally we have had a sex. after that day I find that I am falling love with him, I breakup with my girl friend several months later, and have a relationship with my male partner in very privacy status(bcos we will be in danger if someone knows that), It's been decade of years past, I still love him very much, we are planning to move to a new country that country use English as recent language, so very happy to hear u are English teacher, we are practice our English in our daily life.

I am happy for you.

If you ever want to practice English I will be happy to help.

It's very nice of you.

MrMazda

@kenjysn1: Come to Canada… Here we have very strict laws against being anti-gay in any way. Gay bashing, or otherwise practicing habits that discriminate against gays in any way is considered a hate crime here, which in and of itself is a federal offense. Plus, if you move to a city like Toronto, we speak English, French, German, Polish, Punjab, Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Italian, and Vietnamese lol

humandoormat

you would be lucky if it was real, i hope it works out

kenjysn1

@MrMazda:

@kenjysn1: Come to Canada… Here we have very strict laws against being anti-gay in any way. Gay bashing, or otherwise practicing habits that discriminate against gays in any way is considered a hate crime here, which in and of itself is a federal offense. Plus, if you move to a city like Toronto, we speak English, French, German, Polish, Punjab, Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Italian, and Vietnamese lol

Thank you for your advise, we are planning to move to another conoutry. although it's hard but we think it wealth for a try.