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      gayguy26 last edited by

      Has anybody else found this alluring despite growing up with friends and family who denounce the idea of living with your significant other before marriage?

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        Duvet last edited by

        I think that living with your partner  before marriage is great. Ypu can see and understand if you can handle the whole living together and being together…

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          helloitsmesf last edited by

          definitely a good idea. you have to be able to gauge your guys' dynamic in a very intimate setting

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            jkronfuss last edited by

            I don't yet live with my boyfriend but we are both aware we should whether we want to take it major steps, how we can we be sure that we are suited for each other if we mainly talk by phone, see each other 12/24 hours a week? That's far from enough, so yes, that will happen somewhere in the future. My parents didn't but it was 30 years before our time, nowadays is usual, at least here.

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              youngbearvz last edited by

              Me and my husband/partner are together 14,5 years, we live together 14 years :hug: :hug: :hug:, last year we get marriage, or life partneship as is called in our country, we live in Croatia, in beautifull city Varazdin.

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                cannonmc last edited by

                Well that is a nice message to end the year  😄

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                  raphjd Forum Administrator last edited by

                  I think everyone should live together for at least a year before getting married.

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                    aadam101 last edited by

                    Why wouldn't you live with your partner before marriage?  That's a huge mistake to not do it.

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                      hngn2 last edited by

                      living together changes a lot of things… in both good way and bad way ,

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                        blackwing last edited by

                        7 years before marriage

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                          alveer last edited by

                          nice

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                            KissMyAirs last edited by

                            It makes "marrige" just a papper

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                              lf4317 last edited by

                              I lived with partner for 6 years. Once it became legal for us to get married, we planned for one year and had our wedding. We have been a couple for 14 years.

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                                kenjysn1 last edited by

                                @lf4317:

                                I lived with partner for 6 years. Once it became legal for us to get married, we planned for one year and had our wedding. We have been a couple for 14 years.

                                hope you have a wonderful wedding.

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                                  nickys1177 last edited by

                                  different strokes for different folks..whatever suits the person, i am all for it..living in is ideal if both are okay with it

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                                    jonnbristow last edited by

                                    I'm all for it! I don't think i could wait…

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                                      raju82 last edited by

                                      I think it is a good idea to live together before marriage. It helps.

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                                        andergarcia last edited by

                                        Definetely necessary, in my opinion, to know your partner and to check the best (and the worst) things of living together.
                                        I live with my partner and we are not married yet, and I can't feel happier than living together without getting married. I get to know him better and he gets to know me better, too.

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                                          jbo1 last edited by

                                          Is this a cultural thing in certain countries? I know a total of zero people who waited until marriage to move in together. People around here only get married after they've lived with their significant others for some time.

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                                            AnythingOld last edited by

                                            In this day and age, I probably would never get married. 'Cause these days, I just think it's better to live separately (unless something catastrophic happens in you or your partners life that requires you to live together. Given our culture today, I just don't think it's all that easy to say.... "Yes, I want to spend the rest of my life with you." I'm not saying you shouldn't, but damn, we all need to be more careful (including myself).


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