My boyfriend cheated on me. What should I do?
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Cheating is doing anything behind your partners back. If you feel uncomfortable about it now then you need to make a choice now. You cannot change people - accept him for who he is and if you can live with that then go.
I made the mistake of making my ex promise me but at the end of the day, noone really changes. You have to accept it or leave it.
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What do the texts say?
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dump him. or talk and say that you will allow him to have sex with other people with your permission. if you know that your partner is having sex with other people and they have gotten your consent that it is fine.
it is not ok when they have sex with other people with telling you. if they were in love with you that would bring up the conversation to get your consent and your opinion.
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Do you honestly feel if you approached him / confronted him about cheating that he would tell you the truth? Get real.
ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER…ONCE A LIAR ALWAYS A LIAR! and do you think that if he says "yes, I cheated on you but will never do it again honey" that you could honestly trust him. Once the trust is broken it is almost impossible to get that trust back. Think about it,
if he called you and said, "babe I am running about an hour late coming home from work today" what would be running through your mind, if he said I need to run an errand and it took forever...what would you be thinking? You are the only one hurting yourself and causing yourself grief by staying in the relationship. RUN RUN RUN or KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB! It's not worth it! -
Cheating is doing anything behind your partners back. If you feel uncomfortable about it now then you need to make a choice now. You cannot change people - accept him for who he is and if you can live with that then go.
I made the mistake of making my ex promise me but at the end of the day, noone really changes. You have to accept it or leave it.
Promises are quite often just promises..
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Install a keylogger on the pc without him knowing and see what comes up.
that is a criminal offense in most of the civilized world.
the lengths people go to avoid talking to each other, geez. -
Seems like people would stop posting if the original poster doesn't respond to any suggestions or questions.
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Install a keylogger on the pc without him knowing and see what comes up.
that is a criminal offense in most of the civilized world.
the lengths people go to avoid talking to each other, geez.Not really,especially if it's a shared PC.
And it's not about talking,it's about being sure that you're not ruining a relationship with paranoia and that you have good cause.
After all,the OP didn't report what the texts say.