Not sexually attracted to fat men..?
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Ironically, I find thick and bigger men much more attractive than skinny men…but that's just me.
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:hug: Oh, c'mon! I am fat/big/plump/huge/whatever guy myself, so let me tell u few things:
1. Don't appologize at all about the way you feel, just don't be an ass. It's not even funny this need to be constantly socially/politicaly correct.
2. I am the lucky bastard that is not really one way or the other in anything, so I really like a lot of things, guys, or even gals,tho I still identify myself as a gay. It's good in one way, but brings many complications in another way. Really tough to find someone who likes me and I like him/her/ it/ whatever
3. There is no real need for you to feel guilty about not liking any type of guy. It just is. Almost like with an icecream. I love classic tastes, like vanilla, or chocollate, but I am really crazy about cococnut icecream, and that's really now available much. Should I feel guilty? Why on Earth
4. I know few guys that are fat, and skinny are real trun off for them, as well as some skinny that are turned off by skinnies. No shame in that. Be yourself and be good to everybody you can be. You may never know, I am more attracted to the skinnies/well built guys/but from time to time it really doesn't matter and I like some fatty boy because his combo of how he is, carries himself, acts is just that right combination. Just keep in mind, that the body is something to be enjoyed, but it really doesn't last that much and changes a lot. The real thing is the persona. Try to like that and enjoy what life brings your way.Cheers :hug2:
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I prefer slim and muscular guys and indeed I'm not fat. And I have met some big ones who love slim boy. There's no need to feel guilty.
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Hmmm…....
I definitely get what you guys are saying.
Just a couple things:-
So hypothetically, if a big guy says he likes me and wants to go out on a date or something, and I'm not really into him because he is a big guy, is it best to just tell him outright? Because I know guys of many body types (skinny, muscular, etc etc) who do get sort of upset if someone tells them that they are not really into them.
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I think most of the issues, similar to mine, arise from the "norms" that the society has placed on us. And I completely agree with @SemenDemon on this. A fat person could quite easily reject a skinny person because they are not sexually into them and get away with it, but if the situation was vice-versa, the society brings down hell on the skinny person, you know? That's pretty fucked up.
Like others have said there's nothing wrong about not attracted to a type, it's all in the delivery, I dislike people advertise on their profiles with "No Fat/old/race" etc. If you not attracted to someone you could just decline by telling him that you don't think you are compatible or simply telling him that he is not your type
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i'm not in to twinks, just follow what your heart desires
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You love what you love, I don't see the issue here, I'm mostly atracted to clever and witty guys that's why my ex are so different in the outside (to call it someway) but still, that person should make you feel turned on somehow, of course, not reaaaaaaaaally fat, I have some extra weight myself, I mean when they are perhaps 20 kg over what they should, that's not appealing at all.
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body is not everything.If you love someone, you love them for their :love:
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nope
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185lbs - 250lbs, is so HOT! :hug2: especially if they were glasses. Love it! :love:
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I think it's perfectly ok to have a preference. It's another thing to insult people. Do gay men hate women for not being attracted to them?. I don't think so. The race thing is the same thing. I don't think people are racists for having a preference but I certainly think some are assholes for posting shit like "Not into asians" on dating sites. I personally don't find smooth or skinny people attractive and most asians are smooth and skinny. I like big hairy men and most asians don't have those features, but I would never post on a dating site profile that I'm not into asians. Having a preference doesn't mean you have to make people feel bad for who they are.
