Have you ever wonder if you're somehow a Pansexual?
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Hello guys. I was just wondering if you ever thought to yourself if you're somehow a pansexual? ("somehow" because you think you are and haven't proven it yet).
As I grow older (20, not that old I guess), I see people through their personalities and not there genders, hence developing fondness in those personalities which in time I interpret it as attraction, both romantically and sexually. I no longer care, I just want that person the love he/she deserves to have.
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As people grow older, they tend to be wiser, should be and logically. You and me both. I think. Now the more I look and observe people, the more I value them for their personalities, so yeah, guess I'm more or less a pansexual as well.
While I do still admire certain people's physical appearance, apparently it doesn't seem to concern me anymore when it comes to look for a partner. I already have one anyway
Still… most people still have tendency to look from the outside first, though
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No… I'm pretty much just gay.
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Hello guys. I was just wondering if you ever thought to yourself if you're somehow a pansexual? ("somehow" because you think you are and haven't proven it yet).
As I grow older (20, not that old I guess), I see people through their personalities and not there genders, hence developing fondness in those personalities which in time I interpret it as attraction, both romantically and sexually. I no longer care, I just want that person the love he/she deserves to have.
I hate the term pansexual or omnisexual. If it's not straight, gay or Bi I think it's just a bullshit term the self absorbed use to make themselves feel like unique little snowflakes.
Now if the question was if I've ever wondered if I was bisexual…sure. I'm gay and I think most women are whiny, fake, manipulative or weak. But when I met a woman who really has her shit together, has a powerful personality and some humor and intelligence to go along with it...I find that attractive. Maybe not sexually attractive. I can be an asshole so it usually takes a strong female to be friends with me. I have an ex-girlfriend that I always felt bad that I was gay because personality wise we had the same temperament and she made me laugh. I've never found that with anyone else.
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Every one of us is different. I know this from experiences and observations. Most of the times, stereotype clustering is the only way that makes it possible for us to categorize each other, although there are few categories at all, depending on how someone perceives it. Like when you say self-absorbed, do you really think everyone (people who think and know they're pansexual) is like that? The way you put it suggests so. You might want to think about possibilities first before pointing out uncertain specificity.