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      rudolph last edited by

      Anyone else have trouble with their gag reflex when trying to deep throat?
      What tips do you have to get it past that point?
      Thanks :bj2:

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        jonas32 last edited by

        I practised alot with a dildo in my youth.

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          hhsq last edited by

          @jonas32:

          I practised alot with a dildo in my youth.

          That's a good idea!

          http://hotgayfuzz.tumblr.com/

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            furfiend last edited by

            @jonas32:

            I practised alot with a dildo in my youth.

            I tried the same thing, except the dildo I ordered was so thick, I could barely fit the tip in my mouth. 😛  (My ex still has it.  We call it Mr. Big.)

            Regarding the gag reflex, I think, just like taking a dick in the ass, it's more in the mind than physical.  You gag because you don't want to accidentally swallow and choke on something that isn't food.  You have to remind yourself that you can't actually choke on it.  And the more you want to swallow it, the easier it is to relax and take it.  It still takes a lot of practice.  At least, it did for me.  I still gag if someone with a big cock tries to face fuck me fast, too.  But it's a lot better than it used to be.

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              archangelslc last edited by

              I've heard and read something about training and desensitizing yourself by placing/pressing the bottom part of a spoon onto the back of the tongue, holding it there longer and longer each time till you get used to it. Haven't tried it, but that might help.

              Jonas has a good point. When I think too much (like wondering if he's disease-free, etc.) and not relax, that's when I gag. :afr2:

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                Jwb22 last edited by

                An old  trick that dentists use is to get patients to make a fist with their left hand, thumb tucked inside, and to squeeze the thumb tightly.
                I'm not sure if it's something to do with it being a distraction or something else but it seems to work for quite a few people.

                Maybe if it works for you you could use it until you get used to controlling your gag reflex and eventually free up your hand for other things  😉

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                  zvonac last edited by

                  practice makes perfect  :love: >:D

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                    Dolmance last edited by

                    @jonas32:

                    I practised alot with a dildo in my youth.

                    Me too, but real dicks are better and softer

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                      fuckall last edited by

                      practice

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                      • bimarriedguy
                        bimarriedguy last edited by

                        I have a horrible gag reflex and have been looking for ways to reduce it, as well. Might give the spoon or dildo trick a try and see how that works out.

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                          spam17 last edited by

                          @bimarriedguy:

                          I have a horrible gag reflex and have been looking for ways to reduce it, as well. Might give the spoon or dildo trick a try and see how that works out.

                          Tell us how you are progressing..

                          ::)

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                            JACK777 last edited by

                            My gag reflex is horrible and it does not help that my bf likes to face fuck me fast

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                              baselmarcus last edited by

                              Just keep telling yourself 'this too shall pass away". Alternatively, ask your BF to restrain you completely. And then force you to deepthroat - it is very relieving when you know you can't do anything and have to take it. Maybe that will train you.

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                                baselmarcus last edited by

                                That being said, us hung dom tops have our egos stroked when we are able to induce a gag reflex out of the btm - honest truth. I get totally aroused to see my btms exhibit gag reflex even have a tear in the eye….

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                                  jonas32 last edited by

                                  @baselmarcus:

                                  That being said, us hung dom tops have our egos stroked when we are able to induce a gag reflex out of the btm - honest truth. I get totally aroused to see my btms exhibit gag reflex even have a tear in the eye….

                                  Now i understand why my husband loves the im gagging.

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                                    spam17 last edited by

                                    @jonas32:

                                    @baselmarcus:

                                    That being said, us hung dom tops have our egos stroked when we are able to induce a gag reflex out of the btm - honest truth. I get totally aroused to see my btms exhibit gag reflex even have a tear in the eye….

                                    Now i understand why my husband loves the im gagging.

                                    :cheesy2:

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                                      newtallyguy last edited by

                                      Clench your left fist and keep it clenched. Works like a charm.

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                                        wolfyboy00 last edited by

                                        While brushing my teeth every day, i also brush my tongue. By doing so, it actually helps reduce the gag reflect, if you move it a little bit further along the tongue each time you brush. Do it until you reach the point of gagging and stop or move back forward. Keep doing it and it will improve, can confirm from personal experience.

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                                          spam17 last edited by

                                          @wolfyboy00:

                                          While brushing my teeth every day, i also brush my tongue. By doing so, it actually helps reduce the gag reflect, if you move it a little bit further along the tongue each time you brush. Do it until you reach the point of gagging and stop or move back forward. Keep doing it and it will improve, can confirm from personal experience.

                                          ::)

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                                            wolf69sg last edited by

                                            @baselmarcus:

                                            That being said, us hung dom tops have our egos stroked when we are able to induce a gag reflex out of the btm - honest truth. I get totally aroused to see my btms exhibit gag reflex even have a tear in the eye….

                                            I think it is a natural respond to tear up when deep throating.  Even seen that in experience porn actors.

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