Stalked:
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Has anyone here been stalked ?
Im talking about calling you parents and outing you ,breaking you up with your dates,standing outside of you bedroom window at 1am,telling people that he don't want you going out with anyone until he can get with you to the point they spread rumors that you have AIDS and follow you around kinda stalking ? -
Thank goodness, I haven't.
Can we assume you have been?
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That's bordering criminal activity, and you can file a restraining order if that is happening to you.
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Whoa. That sounds horrifying…that's never happened to me. If that's happening to you, you'll have to do something about it. Wouldn't want it to get any worse than that!
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Unfortunately…I have. I highly recommend an order of protection (based on where you live. I live in NYC). Also (unfortunately) that OOP will do a little bit of nothing...and actually might further incite your stalker. After I got one my stalker sent letters to everyone in my neighborhood saying god knows what (I chose not to look). The police don't take it particularly seriously until something violent is actually done to you. It going to sound trite but what worked for me was trying to ignore them and not give them the reaction that they wanted. They want a connection to you and have your emotions riled up. What is upsetting is the use of outing you to others (which I was told was in the letters they sent to my neighbors). Stay strong, dude. I've been there. It is not a fun time. I hope it passes.
S