Online sex date - not what you expected
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Did you ever had an online sex date with someone who claims to have a certain look, but when you met the guy you discovered that he wasn't as he described himself to be, but did have sex with him anyway ?
I had one occasion on which I had met with an older guy who turned out to be older than he said he was and much fatter. but ended up having sex with him anyway because I was too horny to let him down.
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Actually yes. I imagine that this type of thing occurs a lot lol
My first and only serious hookup. Guy said he was greek with a big dick and lots of nice body hair. We decided to do something kind of public since he had a van. We met up in the very back of the target parking lot. He was totally middle eastern and his cock was short and fat. I was so horny though and he wasnt bad looking so I attempted to fuck him. The car was too hot for him to get an erection so we jerked each other off and I was so out of there within 30 minutes.
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but ended up having sex with him anyway because I was too horny to let him down.
If you were still attracted to him that's fair enough, but it sounds like you weren't attracted to him and that really reflects on a lack of self-esteem on your part that you would still go though with. You aren't under a contract with someone who you meet up with, even less so if they have lied to you to get you there.
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YEP
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This has happened to me. It sucks!!!
You have to be honest and true to yourself. I said "what the fuck dude" he said "what". You seriously lied about everything! You try to trick people into having sex with you. Fuck you. I turned around and left. As i walked away i said "completely wasted my time asshole"Listen, You can not let these assholes get away with this. If they succeed they will keep doing it.
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I think this pretty much sums up on-line dating today. I think almost everyone I went out on a date had something different from the photos they've send.
Pics when they were younger, pics "from a good angle", or pics of someone else, but I agree with radcock. I do think we should stand out for ourselves.I had a strange sex date that went on a different direction. When I reach the guy's door, he was exactly the same way the photos he send me. He open the door completely naked, which was a small shock. The huge shock was a 5-way bisexual orgy happening on the couch behind him. I slowly walked back towards the staircase, and closed the door he was standing. He tried to reach me, saying that I was so hot, that I could stay only with guys, but still, it was totally not happening. :crazy2: :crazy2: :crazy2:
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Ugh same thing happened to me as the OP. The dude was older than I expected and the photo he used was definitely not a recent one. The arrangement was at his "place" which was actually a nasty hotel room. He didn't fuck me but I just gave him head and he played with my hole a bit.
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This may be a silly question, but I simply have to ask;
I notice that frequently people in this kind of site or social apps tend to apply "No pic no reply" rule. I don't really understand that, though. Often, when I attempt to greet and engage them in a conversation, they will ask for my picture, even though I use my own pictures in my profile, there are like of them, in my profile, but they still ask for my pic. What annoys me the most, occasionally, when I give them what they want, they will simply ignore me and stop replying.
My question is, is it really necessary to send our pictures before we chat someone, even if my only means is to simply look for friends? This makes me think that a bunch of gay or bi people only want to hook up or friends with someone's attractive. But then again, in social app like this, people can be anyone right? He may put up his ugliest picture but when you met him he turns out to be good looking and doing so because he's not a type of person who judges someone by their looks, who knows?
So why should they worry about pictures, especially if your only intention is to be friends with them? Can they just get to know each other first without asking for pictures beforehand? If you want to meet you'll eventually know what they look like in real life, really.
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Getting with people online has taught me a lot about what to avoid as far as pictures. Like when people have pictures of themselves leaning back with parts cropped out that would show how they were sitting, you know there's something like backfat being hidden.
When they're taking every picture with a shirt on? Man boobies.
Brags about dick that they never show? Tiny dick.
Area at base of ribcage in center of chest seem to protrude a bit? They're sucking in their gut.
\I notice that frequently people in this kind of site or social apps tend to apply "No pic no reply" rule. I don't really understand that, though. Often, when I attempt to greet and engage them in a conversation, they will ask for my picture, even though I use my own pictures in my profile, there are like of them, in my profile, but they still ask for my pic. What annoys me the most, occasionally, when I give them what they want, they will simply ignore me and stop replying.
My question is, is it really necessary to send our pictures before we chat someone, even if my only means is to simply look for friends? This makes me think that a bunch of gay or bi people only want to hook up or friends with someone's attractive. But then again, in social app like this, people can be anyone right? He may put up his ugliest picture but when you met him he turns out to be good looking and doing so because he's not a type of person who judges someone by their looks, who knows?
So why should they worry about pictures, especially if your only intention is to be friends with them? Can they just get to know each other first without asking for pictures beforehand? If you want to meet you'll eventually know what they look like in real life, really.
Their intention isn't to just be friends, but probably like friends with benefits. When they stop replying after asking for a pic it's because they decided they didn't want to be friends with benefits.
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Always ask for a skype chat before attempting a date… if you ask him to do something he cannot use a false video... the only way he can cheat is asking a hot friend to pretend to be him, but really, there is someone so deserate? (answer: yes, but in the moment you two meet and it's not the one that was on skype, ask him to meet his friend instead or leave...)
However I probably wouldn't trust occasional sex with stranger unless they have some medical certificate that they are free from sexual transmittable disease...
