Spontaneous sex vs. planned sex
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I am bottom and i can't have spontaneous sex, i always have to douche before and if i don't feel clean enough i just say NO to my boyfriend, this is causing some tension in our relationship….how do you handle this situation?
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You can always say, "Of course I'll have sex with you, darlin'. Just not the butt right now."
I mean, they's ways and they's ways. As long as you both have fun.
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Sex is great either planned or spontaneous, but spontaneous sex is better.
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There's indeed plenty of other games than butt fucking, if you don't feel clean enough. And you must renounce to the perfect hygiene down there, there will always be bacteries (hopefully) and other stuffs, so go slowly on the cleaning (as you can destroy your mucus membrane with too many enemas). And to complete the already too long list of advices, I suggest you eat lot of fibers (as it helps to digest and thus to empty your anal canal, with the plus of helping you to loose fat)… Normally, if you're not constipated, your anus will always be empty enough to get fucked (and normally, you should not need to clean it - but your diet (alcohol, fat and too much red meat) or your lifestyle (too much stress) can induce sticky feces) if you don't feel the need to go to the toilet (as that need comes from the rectal distension that induces the need to expulse the feces).
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better spontaneous
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There's indeed plenty of other games than butt fucking, if you don't feel clean enough. And you must renounce to the perfect hygiene down there, there will always be bacteries (hopefully) and other stuffs, so go slowly on the cleaning (as you can destroy your mucus membrane with too many enemas). And to complete the already too long list of advices, I suggest you eat lot of fibers (as it helps to digest and thus to empty your anal canal, with the plus of helping you to loose fat)… Normally, if you're not constipated, your anus will always be empty enough to get fucked (and normally, you should not need to clean it - but your diet (alcohol, fat and too much red meat) or your lifestyle (too much stress) can induce sticky feces) if you don't feel the need to go to the toilet (as that need comes from the rectal distension that induces the need to expulse the feces).
wow.
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spontaneous
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both but I'm more into evening and my BF at the morning so we have no really planned time to sex It most spontaneous during day and night
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spontaneous is better! :cool2:
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Im i bottom and my husband and i have spontanuos sex :hug2:
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Spontanous, it's never really a problem tbh
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spontaneous… just give it a try and see if it will work.
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I like both but spontaneous is more exciting …
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depending on what you mean by spontaneous. I have to say spontaneous. I can't tell you the leave of horniness I'll have in an hour. When the mood is right it's right. If I have the feeling we are gonna have sex. I'll douche but I won't tell him. So that way when the moment is right, we go to pound town.
