What's the difference between fucking guys and fucking girls?
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What was your experience like?
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I am allergic to vaginas.
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Can't tell. I've never fucked a girl =P
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Women are more likely to be fragile and require some restraint rather than balls-to-the-wall animal rutting and the indulgence
in absolute carnality that a sturdier hole and more solid body makes possible. Or are there people who can report their own experience
who disagree with my impression that women are less likely to want or encourage absolute abandonment during the generative act when
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Women are more likely to be fragile and require some restraint rather than balls-to-the-wall animal rutting and the indulgence
in absolute carnality that a sturdier hole and more solid body makes possible. Or are there people who can report their own experience
who disagree with my impression that women are less likely to want or encourage absolute abandonment during the generative act when
it takes place between cock and ass?Agreed. While some girls are totally into getting their ass pounded just as much as a {gay?} guy can handle, but those women are few and far between. Most wouldn't even consider anal without quite some pressure / pleading to be "open-minded and/or experimental" to spice things up. Very few grow to actually enjoy it, even if it is pleasurable, because they have mental/psychological hangups with it. So, you will always have to be gentle with them. No deep, hard, rough balls to the wall fucking. Men who bottom, especially those who really like it, throw everything out the window and grunt, grown, mean, and beg to be plowed and stretched. The sexual connection two men make on the basic literal gutteral level is rarely something many men experience with women.
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What was your experience like?
I couldn't tell you honestly… I just can't bring myself to touch something that bleeds for 5 days and doesn't die lol
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I couldn't tell you honestly… I just can't bring myself to touch something that bleeds for 5 days and doesn't die lol
ahahahahah OMG so true (ew, vaginas)
I had sex with girls in my "maybe I'm bi" days, but probably I chose the wrong ones, they we're just not really into it, not enough "passionate". two girls, then I realized that I really like lick balls and I discovered the joy of a penis banging my anus, so…
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Fortunately no unprotected sex with girls never,, only practiced with the elderly men ;D
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Sex with girls very disgusting for me
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I should post a warning that some may find this to be TLDR, but I'm delighted to be given this little platform to tell anyone who cares what I know about the subject.
Girls ane women are soft, that really can't be understated. Every man I've ever been with is hard and muscular, some of them to the extreme, whether an office worker or construction worker or bodybuilder or soldier. That's the most significant difference I've ever noticed between women and men, and I first noticed that when I was out getting fucked silly by several delicious men at a local highway rest stop before going home to my then-fiancee who stayed up late just so we could fuck. Another is hair–every guy is hairy to some extent just simply because cultures don't really mandate (or even sometimes tolerate) trimming or removal of body hair, and a lot of guys have it where women never will have it (chest, back, legs, ass, face, etc). Sure, there's "manscaping" of late, but a lot of guys either don't do it, or don't do it well (they don't trim enough or in the right places, or they trim their hair so much it's like being with an infant~).
With women, I never cared much about height (having been with women ranging from four-foot-eight to six-foot-one), but they definitely had to be fit or muscular/athletic, though somewhat on the thin side was okay, too. I only ever fucked one large girl for any amount of time, a married nurse I'd met at a bar who had the sweetest, tightest pussy of most any woman I'd ever been with. I think the surprise of that helped our relationship along, though she was great to get along with and, eventually, she started to figure out I was at least bisexual if not outright gay (and she was perfectly okay with that).
I can tell you that eating pussy, no matter the woman's figure, genetics, or general cleanliness, was always a chore I put up with because of the pleasure it gave them, but all of them smelled malodorous to some extent. I had always heard that true blondes were the worst, and I can report that's absolutely true in my case. Which was unfortunate because wild, stacked blondes were the kind of women I preferred and who made me the horniest, by far.
I've had only a few threesomes with women and they tended to get weird (two women and me, that is) because of neglect and jealousy issues, but I've had more than a few three- and foursomes with men and delighted in them, perhaps because I was the "meat in the sandwich." For a while, we had a little thing going where I would show up at two guys' apartment, other men would show up, we'd all get naked and they'd end up fucking me or letting me suck them off, with the occasional double-handjob thrown in. When I was younger, I also let myself get talked into numerous gangbangs, some where I would just stake out a stall in various area adult bookshops while I let word get spread around I would suck off or fuck any guy or guys who entered, and I also had a few where I let myself be that singular hole that upwards of 15 men would come to use and shove their variously-sized dicks inside, pound my guts for a good while, then pump their seed in me or on me, whether in my ass, my mouth, on my face, my hair, my chest, my belly, my thighs, my cock and balls, or on my back or my ass if they happened to let me turn around to lay on my stomach. It was kind of gratifying giving all those men such pleasure, some of them multiple times in the same evening, and it was a wonderfully degenerate feeling leaving those parties all covered in all those mens' dried, sticky cum, being able to walk only slowly and with difficulty because I had been fucked so raw.
Me personally . . . I loved being dominant with women but I most enjoy trying to be a great bottom to almost any man or men I've encountered sexually. I find women initially like sex to be gentle, but if you work up to it predictably, they really enjoy a good, sweaty pounding--whether it be in the pussy or their ass. A lot of them will tell you they don't want, don't like, or have no interest in anal, but given the right moment (and one always presents itself), you can shove it in and it really seems to clear their heads and change their behavior for a while (they almost adore you after you give them a good ass-plowing). There's a lot to be said for sinking your hard cock in a tight pussy, too, make no mistake about it. It's completely unlike anything you'll experience with a man except maybe REALLY good head by someone who really knows what they're doing. On the other hand, fucking a woman's ass is really no different than fucking a man in the ass. If there's any difference, fucking a man in the ass is better because it just seems a little tighter to me and men just seem more intense about having another man's cock shoved up inside them, so it's just better sex.
As far as me and men go--well, I simply LOVE to be dominated by a strong-willed man and will do anything--in all honesty--to make sure I please him. All the better if he carries himself in a sexy manner in bed or he has a great body, good looks, and/or a cock to truly be beholden as a masterpiece of manhood. I have had long relationships with really average-looking guys or even ones I have been told were slightly on the ugly side of the masculine spectrum, but either they were fantastic in bed or well-hung or had bodies you just wanted to tongue and kiss from one end to the other every night--or some combination of the above--so I don't think I'm any too biased as far as how wide or tolerant my preferences go. I mean, I've been with tall, muscular black men with 12-inch dicks who were delightful in bed while they demolished my throat and my ass repeatedly, and I've been with five-foot-five men on the plump and homely side with four-inch dicks I gladly spent whole weekends in bed with. I, too, am like the women I described above who really just need a long, hard, sweaty ass-fucking every few days to clear my head; I find it works better than any anti-depressant medication I've ever used. It's really just a remarkable experience, regardless of whether my man makes me cum or not.
All in all, after wide-ranging experiences like I described above with men, that's what really led me to realize I'm really just gay and I should just allow myself the freedom to "be that way" full-force, which I am now. I needn't waste time pursuing women because they're not really what I desire, no matter how enticing some of them seem to be. I still see women now and again I find are very attractive and sexy and some even come on to me, but I know that's NOT the man I want to be now. I love men, their stiff cocks, and having them spray their cum for me, on me, in me, whatever, until I can drain their balls for them--it's just where I'm at and where I know I'm going to be.
Of course, the evolution of my sexuality has left my wife severely non-plussed, though she only knows the half of it. I doubt she really cares, but she can't let go of that curiosity of where I'm going at times and why I'm going to meet whatever man or men I'm going to, well, end up letting use me to satisfy their carnal desires. She has asked sometimes "What are these blue pills for?" but, astonishingly, she is content with my explanation that they're to take care of blood pressure and cholesterol. I like to be versatile for my men, but I don't use the blue wonder very often, as I much prefer to be my partner's playtoy, and most men I've encountered are more concerned with getting themselves off rather than actually concentrating on making me cum Which is fine by me!
Okay, so stifle that yawn and give us your opinion on the matter--
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Very detailed. Awesome response! Gotta love those "thirsty" guys
I should post a warning that some may find this to be TLDR, but I'm delighted to be given this little platform to tell anyone who cares what I know about the subject.
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xminusone (OTR fan?) writes: I, too, am like the women I described above who really just need a long, hard, sweaty ass-fucking every few days to clear my head; I find it works better than any anti-depressant medication I've ever used. It's really just a remarkable experience, regardless of whether my man makes me cum or not.
My interest was always oral, but if my partner wanted to fuck, that was fine with me, even though it was not until many years later that I discovered it can stimulate the bottom to orgasm. Maybe if I'd been fucked more than a very few times that could have been figured out sooner, but those things did not happen.
It continues to baffle and fascinate me that I never was interested in penetrating others in any way, so the quoted remark interests me greatly. This may be an utterly stupid question, but I really do not know why it is the ejaculation/orgasm of others that so interests me and motivate me. But a mouthful of cum is not the same as an assload, so maybe someone can explain what it is about being fucked that you find "a remarkable experience." Especially if your own orgasm/edaculation is not involved.
It's not that I disagree, only that I have been unable to articulate what it is that I love about being rogered by a horny man. If anyone has ever thought about that, I'd love to know what you think.
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Dearest pornofan:
I am not certain you have not misunderstood me, but in case you have, I am speaking of being the one penetrated by the particular man or (occasionally) men I meet during my humble adventures.
Additionally, it is most definitely a man's ejaculation–and whole-body orgasms that most interest me and motivate me (just as you), especially my partner's, but not to neglect my own--even though I've had perfectly wonderful and satisfactory hardcore sex with men I've helped ejaculate without ever cumming myself.
But, just as there is something frustratingly ineffable about you being able to explain your pleasure at the hands of a horny man, so is it with me and my delight in submitting to anal with my various randy lovers.
It may simply be that anal sex is not something you will ever enjoy or appreciate on that sublime, pure-animal level as I guess I do. Understand, I don't consider my attitude better or supreme or more progressive than yours in the least--it genuinely brings a smile to my face reading how you enjoy sex in the way you do, because it apparently satisfies you very much. Also, please be assured I enjoy a warm, salty mouthful of cum every bit as much as you do, and I would consider any love-making session with any man I've been with inadequate unless I was able to use my talents and abilities to provoke him into sharing his orgasmic pleasure with me in that way.
But I must add, even if my appreciation of having a man take me anally is something unique, that can be no doubt that it has a rather profound positive effect on my whole being and my sensorium. I know there have been many times in my life when I've felt depressed, mean-spirited, lacking in motivation with just general feelings of despair and hopelessness. However, I discovered a long time ago--for whatever reason, I know I can't really explain it to my own satisfaction--that having a strong, hard man just simply TAKE me, BE with me, stretch my hole out with his hard cock (no matter short and thin or long and thick) for a good, long time, leaving his seed deep inside me (which is a delightful feeling when he first fires his load inside me--perhaps not so much 30 minutes or an hour later) . . . well, I've just found that the whole experience "straightens my head out" and gives me the will, hope, courage, and motivation to keep going on. Everything that was bothering me about my life is immediately put back in its proper perspective. Moreover, I manage to cum while he is inside me practically every time, so it's most satisfying for both of us!
Perhaps I'm decadent in feeling this way, perhaps I'm lucky that I've found this love-making activity that serves to restore my faith in living--I don't question it anymore, it's just good and that's all, so far as I am concerned.
I always write on too long for forum posts and for that, I apologize. I have some ideas about why you love being rogered by a horny man, but I will leave that for another post if you would really like my opinion, outlook, or insight.
And, hey! Very perceptive of you picking up on the OTR-fan aspect of the "xminusone" monicker I use--although, to be honest, that's not how I ended up choosing it. It's a long story having, originally, to do with a sponsor's name I saw while watching a Formula 1 race back in the '90s. Probably "TMI," but I am LOVING that you picked up on that. I have been fascinated by OTR programs since I was a pre-teen in the '70s. It's just such a cool medium! Do you like them at all, by chance?
Perhaps I will write again if you like; honestly, you seem like my kind of man and I think we could get along very well together on a personal level at the very least. Too bad you don't live near me . . . but maybe you do (I didn't check that, sorry~)
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xminusone: Thank you for the interesting comments. I, too, tend to post at length, letting my mind wander and drain out through my fingertips as I explore various thoughts and how to put them into words. Unfortunately, as well informed and fascinating as my superior postings always are, I am almost the only person who knows that about the posts because apparently no one reads them, or if someone does read my remarks, they do not bother to share any of their own.
When I ask, as I did recently, what exactly people think "gay sex" means, there was mostly the sound of crickets, the sound of silence in remote areas during the night. As I said, I always liked sucking dick (which apparently is often called a "penis" even on porn sites where medical/clinical scientific terminology is hardly required. Or am I the only person who does not believe any bottom, no matter how prissy, ever said "I want you to put yr penis in me"? OR "Please fuck me with yr hard penis"?
Anyway, it is only in recent times that I have begun to realize that maybe what most people, including gays, think of gay sex is that it involves butt pirates, fudge packing, going the wrong way up a one-way passage. It came as a shock to discover that the str8 people who know I am gay may all be thinking about ass fucking and wondering whether I am, as someone put it in a nonporn Thai movie, I am a king of a queen. (Maybe the subtitles for the gay-themed film were inaccurate).
I don't know what I thought everyone was thinking when they found out I was a fag. Maybe they thought I had designs to abuse their asshole.
Or maybe the afternoon a very hot coworker showed up with a giant boner attempting to bust through his jeans he was hoping for more than a blowjob (which I later realized was v much his minimal expectation, hence his one and only visit to my place). Guess I will never know what people think about any of this, esp. if no one responds to a thread like this one where everyone has an opinion but almost everyone, overwhelmingly, keeps that opinion to himself.Even around these forums I have seen people make a distinction between blowjobs and "real" sex. As someone told me, back when most of us were still virgins, "Fucking is just like real sex, only you don't have to use yr hands." At the v least, we know from pr0n that ejaculating on someone rather than in them counts as a successful sexual climax, and the powerful awesomeness of some supposedly st8s being paid to have a handjob from a man suggests that many of them are discovering orgasm possibilities they had never previously even suspected.
Anyway, I have not had an orgasm from being fucked, but have liked it a lot. For various reasons I have been reluctant to come right out and ask for that, but when a man wants to do it, I'm thrilled to have him aggressively take charge if getting his rocks off by fucking, as he normally does, even if his attention if all on loading up a pussy. Maybe it is not the familiarity, or a sense that a bj is a fancy refinement that is, however welcome, always supplemental to penetrating between the legs of a man or woman. That may be what they are used to, but it may also be something instinctual, some thrusting and hip action that helps trigger what is not entirely a phallocentric orgasm. (I mean that while men may focus primarily or exclusively on the feelings in their dick, the entire body it at least potentially an erogenous zone. And I'm quite sure that loving yr partner lifts the entire act, definitely including the physical sensations, to another level as well. That's something else people do not seem to talk about, though it is often assumed.)
To the extent that initial penetration has its own appeal and physical sensations, so does the slipping and sliding and thrusting with the full length dick at its widest and longest as it swells toward bursting, and then the huffing and puffing, moaning and groaning, the ecstatic and labored sounds of ejaculation as the… penis... throbs and squirts and thrashes in spastic, nonrhythmic fashion, no holds barred. Now, that feels great and is v exciting because a man brought to orgasm is a man who shares that orgasm with me though some kind of Vulcan mind meld (R.I.P Leonard Nimoy). Apart from whatever I am thinking or imagining, apart from whatever story or narrative I am telling myself about what is going on, what I think about the top, I love the feeling of that dick in full operation, entering, banging, squirting. And is there anything as thrilling as an instant repeat where, whether oral or anal, the stud proceeds immediately as if starting from scratch, but without ever going soft or pulling out?
Not enough experience here for me to have much sense of whether one partner's orgasm speeds up, brings about, or increases the orgasm of the other. Does the top feel the bottom's contractions when he forces cum out of someone? Does the top's volcanic geysers trigger a response in the suddenly erupting dick he is stimulating as he gets off? Or is that kind of thing only something that happens between men and women?
The question of why being penetrated is so rewarding and satisfactory an activity is also connected-- isn't it?-- to how the top feels when he pushes a hot load out of the man he is fucking in ass or throat. Just as I am grappling with the question of why being the provider is something I seek, as many men do, I am not clear how the fucker satisfying the bottom male or woman connects up. Not to be insanely naive about feeling good and capable and manly about fucking someone to orgasm(s), or having the skill etc. to eat out a woman until she convulses, perhaps repeatedly and often loudly, but is it really a matter of feeling pride in the competence of one's sexual performance so that not only do You get off, but so does yr partner, hence possibly encouraging further occasions of such mutual rewards? Surely it is not a matter of being polite and courteous enough and respectful of yr partner's needs.
With m/f couples, the misogynic view: How can you tell when a woman cums? "Who cares?" is more likely to be "the woman comes (cums) first." And that is not just manipulative in order for the man to get what he wants.
Questions. Yes, we definitely have questions.
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I always write on too long for forum posts and for that, I apologize.
Oh please do not apologize. I've been just a reader of this topic, and I have to say, your replies are sexual gold, Might be the most delightful, well-written and deliciously-nasty replies I've ever read on this forum. Thanks for providing me several boners with your paragraphs. I envy your sexual experiences with men. Please, please, (for fuck's sake please!) consider writing a blog about it.
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Dinner and 3 dates.
