Coming Out Stories
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I would love to hear coming out stories from anyone that would be willing to share. I always enjoy hearing about different people's experiences, their journeys and everything else that comes with coming out.
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wow
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wow what?
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I would love to hear coming out stories from anyone that would be willing to share. I always enjoy hearing about different people's experiences, their journeys and everything else that comes with coming out.
I do like these stories as well, maybe because most of the stories have a happy-end.. not all though… but as I staed, "most" of them.
I think one of the most boring stories is mine, because it was absolut o.k. for all of my friends, my parents and for the rest of the family, when I decided to anwser questions like "Have you got a girl-firend?" with "No, I'm gay" … and added at this time ( 15 years )... "and no..., I don't have a boyfirned either, at the moment". I was questioned at lot of time by friends and family, how I would know, that I'm gay and most of the time, the answer "I like sucking cocks much, much, much more, than the imagination of licking a vagina, which doesn't even get me hard at all" - sounds a bit naughty for a 15-year-old, but due to the fact that it was true and I still don't feel different by now, I still think, that my answer was not too sexual and not too shameless.
There were only two persons in my family ( grandpa and one older nephew ), who were kind of rude and disrespectfull to me afterwards, but I didn't have much contact to them before, nor did I have it afterwards... so it didn't really bothered me and the fact that when I mentioned this and my father was around as well during this times, he noticed the rude and disrespectfull comments and stepped right next to me, gave me a little, warm smile and looked over to grandpa / nephew with the question ( with a bit of a slightly aggresiv facial expression
"Something wrong with it, that my son is gay???"... well you could imagine, that both didn't want to argue with my father... so the conversation about it was over and my dad gently guided me elsewhere both times ;D... well... sorry... but that's my "coming-out-story"... no big deal in any ways. ^^
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that's fuckin awesome! good on ur dad! :cheers:
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In Greece, the military service is something that every man has to go through.
When i reported for duty, i met this guy…. he was my sergeant. You wouldn't say that he was attractive, but, man, sure he held my heart captive.
I serviced 9 whole months in the region of Evros with him but i never dared to reveal my feelings for him.
The enviroment, plus the fact that he was straight and fallen for a slut of a woman, forced me to hide my feelings for him and we remain friends until we were seperated since he was transfered into another unit in Greece. My heart was utterly shattered.
It was then that i realised that i am gay
Ten years later i learned that he was married and he had a daughter with the bitch!I also have a very strong connection with my mother. She eventually discovered that i am gay, from me. It was a period that i do not want to remember. She didn't accepted it right away and certainly not easily.
As the time passed, she realised that i was her son no matter what and how much i really care for her that she managed to accept it and now she says that she is very proud of me (as i am for her). The same thing went for my younger brother. But surely, it is a storm that i was glad that has passed!
As for my father....well, i suppose that he wanted daughters in the first place because i haven't heard a single nice thing from his mouth to begin with.As you can probably found out, my coming out was a disastrous and unpleasant experience but as far as the majority of my family is concerned, things turned to be fairly fine.
As for him? Well, let's just say that i was one of unlucky ones that realised their sexual orientation with a straight guy! :cry2: :cry2: -
now was the guy's gf/wife REALLY a bitch/slut, or are those ur personal feelings because she was with the guy u liked? it can suck falling for a straight guy, but it's a normal experience. my family is pretty dope and excepted it when I came out. i'm one of the lucky ones, but I REALY do feel for the ones that aren't excepted and cast out of their family. actually want to go into counseling of some sort for teens and/or adults who are shunned by families when coming out.
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now was the guy's gf/wife REALLY a bitch/slut, or are those ur personal feelings because she was with the guy u liked? it can suck falling for a straight guy, but it's a normal experience. my family is pretty dope and excepted it when I came out. i'm one of the lucky ones, but I REALY do feel for the ones that aren't excepted and cast out of their family. actually want to go into counseling of some sort for teens and/or adults who are shunned by families when coming out.
Mostly because she was with him.
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ahhhh,i see. u still talk to him? or still bitter towards her?
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ahhhh,i see. u still talk to him? or still bitter towards her?
No, we parted ways when he was transferred into another unit to complete his military service.
It was not something physical, it was more in the form of a very strong platonic love that i have torward him. I never revealed to him my feelings for the formentioned reasons.
If i am still bitter? Man, I HATE HER!!!! :spank2: -
so if it was just platonic feelings u had for him…why do u hate her so much?
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so if it was just platonic feelings u had for him…why do u hate her so much?
By the term ''platonic'' i mean that i haven't revealed to him my feelings (apparently, you haven't red the whole story).
It doesn't mean that there were not there (and there still are).
I hate her because she have him. It is that simple and don't tell me that you wouldn't feel the same way if you were in my shoes.
And let me tell you that she didn't apprieciated the fact that he was her boyfriend. She was a demanding and selfish harpie!
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first of all, don't come at me like that saying I didn't read ur post, ok. im not sure if English is ur first language, but "platonic" means flat, which in relationships means u don't have any romantic feelings for the person. so u using that term, I assumed that u were saying that u didn't have those feelings any longer. and if I was in ur place, no I wouldn't feel the same. if I loved someone, and their happiness was with this person, then i'd be happy for them.
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first of all, don't come at me like that saying I didn't read ur post, ok. im not sure if English is ur first language, but "platonic" means flat, which in relationships means u don't have any romantic feelings for the person. so u using that term, I assumed that u were saying that u didn't have those feelings any longer. and if I was in ur place, no I wouldn't feel the same. if I loved someone, and their happiness was with this person, then i'd be happy for them.
Platonic in Greece has a different meaning. It means that something we feel is not manifested or it is kept a well hidden secret.
For him i am happy and that's why i haven't tried to establish a form o contact after all these years. However, being happy for him doesn't mean that i have to feel happy for the bitch. -
no u don't have to be happy for her…but have u ever talked to her? or met her?
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no u don't have to be happy for her…but have u ever talked to her? or met her?
Yes. When he had a leave of absence for 24 hours he brought her to meet her with his friends.
She was obnoxious and very spoiled. She didn't bother to say to me ''very happy to meet you'' despite me being nice to her. -
i dont think i will ever come out because i live in a society that kind of hate and bans gays or lesbians. Lucky for those who are able to come out and still live normal lives.
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My mother read diary of me and my boyfriend, what a lucky me to have a wonderful mother!
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My mother read diary of me and my boyfriend, what a lucky me to have a wonderful mother!
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my story is a little bit stupid - i forgot gay porn disk in the family computer- so my parents found it and ask me - so i said that i am gay-at first my mother said go away a gay will not live in my house , my father said nothing.After some days my mother accepted it but my father still not and we are not talking about this.