What's everyone's thoughts on this?
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I can't get erect over girls but I want to be with girls and have a normal life, get married and have kids but I'm not sure, every time I go to do something with a girl I can't perform. The scary part is, I occasionally have feelings for guys and am attracted to them… I don't want that tho, it doesn't seem like me, it isn't me! I'm so confused, am I gay?! If so, can I somehow change that?!??
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You can't change yourself. Just follow your heart. Don't try to be someone you're not.
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You can keep telling yourself that you are straight but that's kind of a jail and you will never be happy in it.
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Sounds like you're gay to me.
You can still have a family while being gay, you know. You could even get a female surrogate to have your child–or you could adopt. There are many children already in the world who need a home.