I'm in Kitchener, but I have a minivan, so it may be possible to arrange something, though I loathe driving through Toronto completely, especially at rush hour haha
I don't devote much attention to any studios. I mostly watch videos from amateurs who post on "tube" websites. I don't have an especially difficult time finding things I like, though quality control (video quality, lighting, etc.) is certainly an issue at times.
No need to be upset there 🙂 just like all porn, they are just portraying a fantasy to suit the audience. It's like when they hire gay for pay actors that are straight.