@x69x Sorry this has been frustrating, it is certainly a learning curve for so many of us (even me!).
With the 137mb - once others got all of it from you, they continued sharing it with others also wanting what you offered. A big part of connecting with others to share files is in making sure ports are forwarded correctly - please check yours at https://portforward.com.
Our Staff Team Leader has more help posted at https://community.gaytorrent.ru/topic/34754/advice-for-our-members-how-to-maintain-a-healthy-ratio.
Ricky
GayTorrent.ru Staff