thanx mickeysky.
my parents are really traditional.
though there is no law to enforce one guy marry with a girl; but it is considered to be not kind to your ancestry in Chinese culture.
So i am always thinking about this , and havnt figure out yet…
I am a Chinese boy living with my boyfriend in harmony.
we recognized each other when he is a freshman and i am a sophomore. We have been together since then; we love each other very much. Though I graduated this year,I find a job near my university so we can meet very week.
Everything seems to be going on well, but i am gettin worried about our future.
In China,we are supposed to get married with a female , render a child and live with my parents. Then it means we cannot live with each other for the whole life.
Especially I am working now,my parents keep calling me to find a girl friend. I am really get bored. but i cannot tell them the truth because they will be heart-broken if they know i am a gay.
I love my boy friend as well as my parents.
could some one give me some advice about what i should do?
I am really boring~~~ 
after I come back from 8days holiday,I didnt hook up internet during this period.
now,i have no rights now…
我只下载了一部电影这要等到什么时候才能达到合格的Ratio呢......
crying..................
你一进来就下载一些老电影，都只有一两个下载者（1 or 2 leecher), 试问如果都没有人要下载这部电影，你怎么会有上传量呢？
所以我建议你停止下载那些老电影，先下载一些新电影，这些电影通常是只有一个上传者（1 seeder), 50/60个下载者。先搞好你的分享率，然后再去下载那些你喜欢的老电影。
或者你可以自己做种上传新电影（现在不在我们网站里的电影，都可以称为新电影）。你现在只差140MB左右，只要上传一部120MB左右就暂时平衡掉你需要上传的量了。当然你上传的越多，为以后下载准备的缓冲就越多。
你好 谢谢你的建议 ~~~
我昨天刚注册的
下载完成了1部做种，正在下载的有3部
现在UL: 102.11 MB
DL: 980.71 MB Ratio: 0.104 Bonus: 4.1
按照规定我的Retio如果在3天呢达不到规定可能就无法下载了
不是我不想分享是网速太慢咯 上传只有几kb/s