no, no. Lube up is the last thing before you get fucked. First is: clean out. I know some guys use elaborate shower douches. But the drugstore sells 6-pack, throw-away douches for less than usd3. I put a boy face down on the bed and squeeze the douche into him while I caress and admire what is going to be my pleasure shortly. When he says, "I gotta go." I make him wait a bit longer so I can watch him wiggle his ass while he runs to the bathroom.  Then a quick shower. Only then do I lube him up.

Good, old-fashioned Crisco. Yeah, a bit messy, but, boy, does it do the trick. Lube the hole, lube my cock. Vegetable based. Stays greasy, slippery and cleans off easily. Umm, I bought the store brand one time, but it isn't the same. Buy Crisco brand vegetable shortening in the baking aisle of your supermarket. See if the check-out boy smiles.