Awesome, thank you!

I've seen quite a lot of those images that appear to be videos with 'duration 29min' etc. as stills on tumblr, etc. so I'd be very wary of giving over my card details until you hear from someone who's signed up for the site and not had a problem.

Pretty certain he's English, but can't find anything via G**gle
All help appreciated!

For a personal account of how Don't Ask, Don't Tell and other legislation affected one man in the military, you could do a lot worse than read "Soldier of Change" by Stephen Snyder-Hill. Over the course of 20+ years' service, he tells how life in the US Army as a gay man changed, including how DADT made things worse, not better.