Hi MrMazda…
Thank you so much for the reply.  I did everything you said.  Had no problems with the actual port forwarding.. but still no success in utorrent.
I have other torrents that have downloaded from another site seeding in utorrent, which are uploading just fine, at speeds of 10-150 kBps... but NONE of the ones downloaded from gaytorrent.ru are uploading at all... except for one file uploading VERY VERY slowly, between 0-2 kBps. 
I will PM you too... but just wanted to post the update here in case anyone else has ideas.
Again thank you so much for your help with this.

Hi,
This may seem like a stupid question… but I guess I am having trouble with the "connectable" part of the above recommendations...
I can download torrents just fine from gaytorrent.ru, and I leave them sitting in utorrent, ready to seed, seemingly forever.. but none of them do anything.  I don't know if I am using the wrong settings or what.  I download from other torrent sites and can seed just fine with them.. and I would love to be a good seeder at gaytorrent, but I just can't get any of my torrents to seed.  Please help.. thank you very much.