I have a gay friend I often have sex with (he is 48 and I am 35), I find it difficult to ask for things, especially while we're doing it. Also we send each other gifs or small vids of things we like.
I want to explore submissiveness and degradation (face fucks, piss, rough talk, slapping on my face (while blowing him), licking muscles, etc.). But all the gifs/vids I find are quite hard (for me) or involve fucking (I am not a bottom, I can't receive).
Do you guys have any good place to start?