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OK...delete the torrent...just the torrent in your torrent program.
Then make sure that there is a copy of the file you are uploading in the FOLDER THAT YOUR TORRENT PROGRAM USES FOR STORING TORRENTS THAT ARE DOWNLOADING...where your active downloads are;
Then click on download again on your torrent page on GayTorrent.ru.
Watch you download page of your torrent program and see if it "checks" the file, and then moves it to download.
At that point you should be complete, and within a few minutes it should show as connectable.
Good Luck