Hi, I was just searching for any new toys to see any ideas and I came across your post. I am not into the harder/fetish/kinkeyer (is that last one even a word?) But I do have a suggestion. A company called Rends has recently released a device called the Rends R-1 Cyclone, its battery operated, it basically a sleeve that goes over the head of the penis and rotates depending on what setting the user chooses. It can be used hands free by putting it on and then putting a pair of larger underwear on or PJs, Jock strap, leather, loin cloth, what ever will work… The thing I love to do with it is tie my boyfriend up, put it on him and put it on a setting that slowly works him, then after a while I boost it into a high setting and after he cums I give it a while until he is basically crying and begging me to stop it and take it off cause he is so sensitive after he shoots.
I know there are some other devices out there that are hands free and automated but most of them either suck (and not in a good way) or are way too pricey (at least for me), this one isnt dirt cheap but worth it, I paid about 130 USD for the combo unit and 30 bucks for each of the other 2 sleeve types you can get for it. The things amazing for the price, I just wish the sleeve was longer and of course that it could also go up and down.
Let me know if you are interested I have a page thats for the US and one for international, I dunno the policy of posting links on the forum thats why I just dont post it.