DHT, Local Peer Discovery and Peer Exchange not being allowed is normal. This is a private tracker which is for peers from the tracker only.
The "updating" to continue isn't normal, though. That can have multiple reasons. First thing to try is to stop the torrent, wait a minute and then restart it in your µTorrent.
It might as well help, if you upgrade or downgrade your µTorrent in case you use the version 3.3.20 or 3.4.1 to other builds of 3.4.1 or to 3.3.10. These two versions show random issues with a few torrents. Or if you use an early version of µTorrent 3.x series, upgrade at least to 3.3.10 .
If that doesn't help, contact the Helpdesk indicating the link to the torrent's page on GayTorrent.ru .
When you are longer member and got higher download and a good share ratio (means high upload) the daily number of .torrent file will increase quite fast.