Posts made by Attivan

My sister is a lesbian - We like to joke that my mother was cursed. She doesn't like that joke  ;D

I've been friends with a guy who was only friends with other gay guys and I find that kiiiiinda limiting. Like, I have friends from all backgrounds and I can't be bothered to vet them all and double check sexuality before making sure we can stay friends.

I would try posting on boards about any hobbies you have. Would be a lot easier finding a friend with similar interests rather than just looking for "a gay friend"

Since we were 12 so about 17 years now. He's the funniest person I know, I couldn't imagine not being friends with him. I practically lived at his house while we were at school together. I miss him now he's moved away so I don't see him as often, but he's settled down with a guy now so I'm glad he's happy.

If someone makes you feel disgust and hatred about yourself that person is definitely not your friend. I would cut them out of your life, you don't need that kind of negativity.