Hi there 'Not a chubby boy',

I've experience(d) the same thing, only I am the big, tall, handsome, furry bear who is attracted to guys who are smaller and thin to average build.  I seem to attract more big bears than guys like you.  Every person has certain things that they are attracted to in others and, at least in my situation, my particular 'list' has pretty much stayed the same since I was a teenager.  I'm attracted to a variety of guys.  Thin to average builds to guys with a little meat on them, dark hair and big brown puppy dog eyes get me every time!  I like guys from smooth all the way to hairy…just not into guys who shave it off. I really have a 'thing' for Latin and Spanish guys...especially the guys shorter than me (they are so easy to pick up and carry off to bed...Grrr).  But honestly the non physical stuff is more important than items on my 'list'.  I don't care how hot or built or whatever he is...its far more important that he be a decent, funny, caring and (hopefully a fellow hopeless romantic at heart) nice guy who can carry on a conversation that doesn't resemble instant messaging!  :cheers:   So to get back to your post...there are big bears out there that would love to give a guy like you a big 'ol bear hug and more...    :hug: