I'd love to get myself a daddy too

I actually love to swallow cum, but only if it's someones I really like!!

If it is a casual hook up, I just spit …

When you first start, it might hurt a little bit. It is unconscious, but you can't fully relax your anus when you're trying out this new experience. You will always be a little bit nervous.

So, go generous on the lube! REALLY generous! Don't worry about exaggerating, when it comes to lube. At the penetration moment it might hurt, so go slow. Ask for a gentle slow fuck at first. After a while, when you're used to the sensation, then ask your partner to go wilder

If you bottom regularly, you will start to relax more, and your unconscious mind will start to relax as well, and it will not hurt so much anymore.

Best of luck, I hope you'll learn to enjoy bottoming as much as I do