@stam8 No one has ever asked or implied they want to kiss. I'm pretty straightforward about how far I'm willing to go, and usually seek out the kinds of posts that imply or state it's a blow-and-go type of situation. I've had people ask if I can fuck them, but they're usually looking for bareback and I'm not.

I would decline a kiss, and explain roughly why. Like I do when someone wants me to suck them. I tried it once at a gloryhole because I felt obligated, but after having it in my mouth I realized it's really not for me and stopped pretty quickly

As a "str8" guy when I want some anon head I visit doublelist. I prefer gloryholes, but occasionally I'll go for something else. If you wanted more than just a quick blow-n-go, invite them over regularly until it's more than that. At least for me, that's what it takes to even really consider doing anything more. But there have been ads that have intrigued me that ask for exactly what they want.

But, keep in mind I'm straight by my definition. I'm genuinely not attracted to men, I basically do this when it's been a while and I don't want to pay for it. As such I have zero desire to kiss, rub, perform oral, etc. It's why I prefer gloryholes.

I hope that helps a little bit.