(First sorry because English is not my first language! )
I'm 33Yo, power bottom (I like to call me myself like that), had lots of oral sex in my younger years (I always was the giver, just only two times in my life I have received it) and jerk off other guys. I've NEVER had penetration, first because I was afraid it was gonna hurt and second because I was afraid that "anal sex" always end in a "mess" (if you know what I'm trying to say).
Years passed by and well, I didn't have sex in like 13 years (not even oral sex with other guys) so, I'm starting to think I'm asexual or something, I don't know, I like men like I like to breathe… But I don't have a strong enough motivation to go out and lose my "anal" virginity.
PS: I might add that I'm "normal" looking, and a discrete bottom (people sometimes doesn't even know that I'm gay)