OMG wow.  ;D

@kingcub:

Well… When I had my first gay sex I wasn't virgin anymore, but I have some advices for you:

1st: Use condom, don't matter who is gonna be the lucky one that will give ya that pleasure. Don't play with your health and life in your first shoot. 2nd: Just a hook-up or a boyfriend, wait until you feel ready, calm and not anxious about the matter, and let it loose when you find someone you're sure that will be kind and nice with you.

My first gay time was with a friend. It was nice and very special, not in a romantic/magical way, but due the fact we like each other a lot.
Both straights at the time, so you can imagine it. A lot of touching, cuddling, kissing and lube (oh god!). Oh, don't forget great doses of patience.

I wish your first experience become something great, something you will feel comfortable and proud.

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Hugs!
xoxo.

Probably the best advise you could take.

Yeah, I'm going to say 7 is fine.  Personally, I think you can end up with a penis that's too big.  What does that make me?  What's the opposite of a size queen?

I'll echo that.  First times are very scary.  Do it with someone you know and trust.  There are quite a few people who posted that it hurts a lot.  It doesn't have to be that way.  Make sure you that go slowly with the person, be patient, be patient, and use lots of lube.  If you do with someone you care about and they feel the same way about you, then it'll be ripe for a pleasant memory.  Of course, you can always choose have your first with someone random, but make sure that's actually what you want and not a on the moment decision.

I have a friend who lost his virginity to a random guy on his spring break trip in Puerto Rico.  He had the whole thing planned about before he left for vacation, and it worked for him.  The guy was passionate and experienced he recalls.  But that's the only story i know of a positive stranger experience among many nightmares.

Please Please Please: Remember to be safe…meaning use a CONDOM.  I do HIV research and the more we learn about the virus, the sadder it becomes that people are growing cavalier about the possibility of infection.

I have a weird thing for Michael Brandon.  I haven't had sex with any of my dad's friends, and I can't really ever say that I wanted to.  I think that might just a common fantasy that often goes unfulfilled.

~3-5x per week.  Depends on how busy/stressed I am.

First yes, gay marriage is important, and it is important because marriage is important.  I think its important for people to realize that if you accept that same sex couple can enter the same union granted to heterosexual couples, then the gay/straight marriage is actually a false dichotomy.  It's actually sad that "gay marriage" has even become a term.  If this is really cause for equality, then we should really only be talking about marriage…no gay needed.

I think a better question is really about whether marriage is important?  I think the answer is yes; it is important, but not for everyone.  Ignoring the rights confer governmentally, the institution is really more of a binding trust between individuals.  It's an agreement to stay together (for what ever reason the parties decide).  The hassle is the point.  Getting married in a way of agreeing to tie yourself to someone and knowingly facing greater difficulty to end relationships.  I think theres quite a bit of sweetness in that.

I'm not sure if I'll ever get married of if I want to, but I do believe that marriage is perhaps one of the most significant promises a person can actually make to another. I'm stuck to you...legally!