I think that there is nothing to regret in a gay life: we are the ones who are allowed to do anything!!!
Since when would a straight guy dress up like a woman just for the fun of it? (except at carneval ;-)) ) We can be stylish when we like to even wear a suit for grocery shopping at 6 am. Everybody will just think "oh he´s gay, that´s ok
And i have to agree with coffeeboy2k about archetypes…
Meanwhile my only answer to the question "who is the girl" is "both of us because we are a lesbian couple, can´t u tell?" gg
Anyway there is nothing to regret: we have better sex, we have more fun and we look better than straight people (at least in austria) :-))