Can you love sex with men butnot love men?
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personally, i would say YES! you can have sex any guys without loving anyone.
maybe, your still in "LUST" period! but time will come this will change.
i was like that but i found myself my beautiful, loving, sweet BF!
he's the only guy fucked me! and loving it!
I envy you!
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I dont know if it is just myself but can anyone here say that they like sex with men and not fall in love with men?
I love fooling around with men but i would never let another guy take me up my ass. i would fuck a guy up the ass and cum though
Can anyone tell me if they have the same feelings?!?
You described me, and I don't like men with women's attitudes.
I love be a man and do things that men do naturally, I want to be a firefighter.
But I love fuck another men, trade kisses and be sucked.there is nothing wrong with us, we just like to be Top guys.
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My straight best friends (a girl) agrees with me, and some other straight guys i know agree that gay love is sometimes more honest than straight love (go figure ???).
for gays is oftem easier to have sex, but harder do have a serious relationship that it is with straighs. u end up having so much troubles with society, family,… that when u only go to the trouble of being in a relationship, when u really love that person. and than the love is really strong and fufieling as u said
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Some people probably can others probably can't.
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Yes but of course you can if that is your nature. See I think that no one and yes I did say NO ONE person is 100percent GAY or STRAIGHT. Everyone is sexual, Straight think they have to be and Gay think they have to be also. Society has worked its magic on both sides here. The sraight world for the most part want you to be straight. The gay world wants you to be gay. People will always have there difference until everyone can TRUE-LY OPEN there mind to what other want and what they them selves want. And to be happy with it and not even question it. In a perfect society people would just have sex with you ever they found attractive or turned on by or by what ever it that would draw you to that person. It could be the same sex and it could be the oppsoite sex but no one would even think about it as wrong or right or gay or bi or straight. I would just be human to have sex with other humans. We are the only species that frowns apoun the differnet or not differnt enough or to straight . I belive that every person is what they call it to day is BI. But there would be no labes in a perfect world and the sonner that you get ride of the lables the closer to mankind we will become. Be honest if you dont at least break out of what to you is you norm or your comerfet zone than you have at least thought about doing it. And if you havent ever pondered the thought then I belive you that you are lying to your self and you need to get out of your box in what ever way that it might be. This is what I have figured out in my time so far. Many will think differnt than what I say but that is what makes us human also lol. IF you are a man and you never slept with a women get the courage to find one and do it experince it . And dont say I did it once it was terrible becuase I have had many great and many bad from both sides. If you are a man that hasent slept with a man the do so. And women which might be in here you do the same thing. Sex is SEX and Love is love. You may be able to find sex and comfert in one sex . Others can not. It has nothing to do with socity for some I think it is just that you find one sex more attracitve and the other more turned on by it but That is my opion and I hope you enjoyed reading this and think about be for you blast off at the keyboard and not ponder it for a moment or 2. Thanks for reading this .
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i luv sex with men
can only have sex with men
but iv never ever been in luv
i luv all iv had sex with
and iv luv'd the sex
but i dont need to fall in luv to have sex
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Of course you can love sex with men, but not love men. However, it does not necessarily mean that you can't not love a man ever. It just a matter of time and how much you are comfortable in your own skin about your sexual identity. Be Honest to yourself and to others that come to you is the key and at one point, you will naturally give love a chance. Love is a subtle, yet very powerful thing that when you fall in love, you don't even realize yourself.
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I love sex with men and have dated both men and women, but I really couldn't see myself settling down or having a long term relationship with a guy.
Why?!
Do you feel that gay relationships are inferior?
I wouldn't go out and say 'inferior', but from what I've read and can comprehend from his writing, he's most likely grown up with some sense of "I like having sex with guys, but I just don't see myself fit with a man for a long-term relationship", partly due to the surroundings and ideas of elders. (This is only a guess), but in all sense, i'm on the same page as this guy because I don't see myself loving a man the way I could love a woman (Odd I don't like having sex with women as much), but that's just how my brain plays it out.
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i love men x
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just go with the flow…
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I would say that depends on your sexual orientation.
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I think it's possible…
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While I've had more than my share of simple "sex" (anonymous meetings in sometimes dark places where no one stays around after I make him cum), I can't say I can have sex without caring deeply about, and even loving, most of the men I've been with.
I've gotten laid by all too many guys who won't kiss me while we're making out or fucking "because if _kiss them that makes [them] gay"–say what? I always wish I could get these men to just let go and embrace the passion of making love to another man--the passion I'm feeling while they're letting me suck them off or, most strangely, pounding my ass with their cocks like their dicks were a substitute for punching me. And they always cum REALLY hard, panting hard and even moaning sometimes as they pull my hair while they impale me. Then, they yank their dicks out of me quickly, zip up and button up and buckle their belts as fast as they can, avoiding eye contact as much as possible. But then the majority of them either hand me a paper with their cell number or they say it to me quickly and ask me to repeat it, so now I'm really confused.
I mean, hell, yeah, I love getting laid any way at all, but I just tend to have a pretty intense "personal investment" with whoever I choose to let stick their stiff dicks in me. So, for me, I have to throw my gauntlet down on the side of loving men--I love everything about men's bodies and I love when the man or men I get intimate with make it just that more intense by us caring about each other. Hell, I love kissing and hugging, love being playful while I'm doing whatever while we're "nekkid" I love kissing and sucking on a man's neck, love kissing his chest and belly, hell, I just plain love making love to my men, and I guess that's as simple as I can put it._
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I love to have sex with a man because i fell in love with a man.
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Sexuality is very complex. For a sexuality to be completed and defined, it needs two factors together:
- Sexual Attraction
- Romantic Attraction.
I think you're some sort of bisexual, in bisexuality those factors sometimes separate. You get horny with men, but not love them. I don't know how is your sexual relationships with women but it might be the case you can easily love one, but they don't turn you on as much as men does. Anyway, if a woman can make you happy and be in love, and you can at least have sex with them and enjoy it, go for it. But it doesn't mean you won't still have sexual appetite for fucking men asses, just saying.
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I must love the man first and then sex, or at least relieved him
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I know people who have different sexual and emotional orientations. I for instance am emotionally attracted to both men and women. But only sexually attracted to men. So technically I could date both men and women but since I only like sex with guys I'll only date them.
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I think so. You can be attracted to something and never fall in love with it. Straight guys do it all the time. Fuck random females because they are hot, then go back home to the ones they love. No big deal if you ask me. Just protect yourself.
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Absolutely you can… There is a big difference between enjoying a feeling, sensation, or a particular act and actual love itself. Sadly though, too many people confuse the two and think that they go hand in hand, or that once you have done one, the other will follow. This is simply not the case.
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Maybe I am the only ones who believes this but if you have sex with men you are gay. You may not love the men you have sex with because you are not allowing yourself to. You can have sex with a guy and go back to your straight life by just saying it was a one time or hundred time thing.
