"straight" Youngblood who won't kiss

scoyng

Last night I hooked up with a very young lad (from my point of view). I'm an elderly 31 year old man who met a handsome, smooth, well hung "youngblood" (18 he said). He was absolutely adorable and practically begged me to let him suck my cock. Needless to say I happily agreed and soon found myself getting one of the hottest blow jobs from such a young stud.

I didn't find it strange at first, but he went straight for my cock. No foreplay, kissing, etc. All he was interested in was sucking me off, which he did admirably. But when I went to return the favor, I started off by a little foreplay, first touching, and tried to kiss him. For someone who was so obviously practiced at sucking cock I was amazed, when to my surprise, he refused to let me kiss him. He didn't mind me kissing his body so much, but his neck and above were off limits.

I'm assuming since the boy was so young he was still uncertain about his sexuality, possibly believing he was "straight" and desperately horny. I've heard of men who won't kiss but I always assumed they were either closet homosexuals or bisexuals for whom need some justification for their self-perceived deviant behavior.

Once I learned of his disdain for kissing I almost felt like I was abusing him. Regardless of the fact he came on to me and who's stated goal was simply to suck me off.

Does anyone else have an adversion to kissing? What is your reasoning? Do you consider yourself straight, bi, or gay? Is this a rather common occurrence amongst gay men, or is it usually reserved to those who consider themselves bisexual or straight, or at least are in some state of denial or inability to accept their sexuality?

Was it abusive of me to become physically involved with someone with such a hangup? I mean, if they're that unsure of their sexuality, are they really rational and informed enough to consent to having sex, especially at such a young age. Should I just avoid interactions with men with such difference in age (younger)? Is it wrong of me to be aroused by handsome, unsure, nieve, young boy? Was I wrong in my actions?

Any input appreciated.

-sly

ultmate

Ok, first of all, you're no "31yo elderly"! Your life is only starting man! =D

So ok, you hooked up with an 18yo boy, and he happens to be a non-kisser type but sucks cock like a deity… he might, in fact, be going thru a phase where he doesn't really know his true sexuality. He might think he's straight but the fact he likes sucking dicks isn't much of a straight-guy activity.

I don't kiss guys I don't know. So going by that reasoning, I neither consider myself different sexually speaking. I swing between Bisexual and Gay... depending on the status I have at a particular moment of my life. Some bisexual guys don't like kissing, I've known a few by reference. Maybe what you say is true, he could be in denial, or simply doesn't wanna get involved with feelings when kissing another guy, who knows?

I personally don't think you were being abusive in any sense. It just happened that you liked the boy and he had his mind set on sucking you off. Now, if they have sexuality issues, that's a different story and they need to handle it on their own. Anyone above 18yo can consent to have sex without any problem, whether they are informed or not, sex is sex any way you see it. 18yo is not that much of a young age any more Scotty.

Look, maybe you feel attracted to youngbloods and such, perhaps you need to focus on people who are sure of what they want, where they go to and more... some kids could be 18yo but they're still completely immature and at your age, you should probably go for 25+... I can assure you it'll be a different experience.

And you could be aroused by any type of guys, that's just who you are. I don't like kids. I like guys around my age, anywhere between 24-35yo (I'm 28 though). People who would have their mind set to... u'know?

Anyway, these are my 2-cents. But then again, every thinking head is a different world and point of view...

scoyng

I usually wouldn't go for anyone under the age 25 but this boy, who is in fact 19 years old, came on to me. I didn't seek him out, or hit on him, I thought it were a joke at first. He was adamant about it and I thought what the hell, I must still got it going on, and let him seduce me. I found the kissing thing a bit odd and the idea that the guy may actually fancy me had never crossed my mind. It wasn't until today when he contacted me again, wanting to get to know me better, and of course, have sex again, that I began to think he might just have a crush on me.

I certainly have no interest in dating or being in a relationship with someone his age. So now I've to to work out how to let him down without making him feel rejected. Considering his age, the fact that he may still has issues with his sexuality, and his wanting to see me again, I feel I may have one very sticky situation on my hands.

Should I try and explain the situation to him and risk him misinterpreting the whole thing, or should I just ignore and avoid the boy. The last think I want is a 19 year old stocker. I have to admit the whole situation has inflated my ego.

-sly

ultmate

It seems like he might have a crush indeed. Now, you need to be careful. Guys that age could become stalkers in a snap, the fall for someone and go after like there's no tomorrow.

I'm glad you set yourself a minimum age limit to go for.

He will probably misinterpret the whole situation once you bring the subject to the table. It's actually a 50/50 thing… it could go either way. Try lil' by lil' to avoid him in a very nice and educated way. There's a chance he will eventually be driven away and loose interest in you.

It's natural feeling one's ego inflated when a boy 12ys younger than you noticed one's existence and places eyes on.

Be careful when handling this boy. You have to be more intelligent and smart about it than him.

jcj

it's possible he was having an outbreak $:-\$

in any case, I consider myself gay and I don't mind kissing but it always feels a bit awkward for me.