books from the other guy's perspective

[bobberella]

It seems like every book I've ever read with gay male characters it's always from the POV of the "little spoon"
and in the paranormal subgenre he's almost always the "normie" as well.
It's always the bottom or the submissive on who the story puts all or most of the focus...
He meets the taller, bigger, stronger man and the mere thought of this guy makes him quiver like a severed octopus tentacle after having soy sauce poured on it.

Are there any books/stories that focus on the "big spoon" guy?
Where's the POV of the big strong man who gets excited and eager to be with the little guy?
Any recommendations?