Kinky Ideas
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So me and my partner have done a few things, i'm mostly the kinky one.
Nipple pegs, ropes, foot in mouth, cum almost everywhere.Do you have any kinky ideas I can try?
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That would depend on your definition of kinky: if you're ok with a bit of pain element for BSDM play (and nipple pegs suggest you are), then there is electro play and whipping available but, unlike nipple pegs, it has 2 participants, one inflicting it and one receiving it, so it is different, it requires a certain level of being into BDSM play from both participants. If you're the most kinky one, I am not sure if your partner will get as much into it. As with any roleplay, it needs both of you into it for it to work.
Arguably, when it comes to "kinky" stuff, there may be generally three directions where you can go: Toys, Roleplay, and Fetish, but they are interconnected. Toys you already mentioned, with pegs and ropes (that also goes into both Roleplay and Rope Fetish), but there are options like blindfolds or double dildoes, those are mostly the Toy factor of it. One of the things you may want to think about with toys is also a temperature play: if you have metal/glass dildo of a butt plug, freezing or heating it in hot water before usage may be kinky enough.
For Roleplay, the major element is for both participants to be into it, it is not the extra element brought in by toy here, but rather an immersion into a sexual fantasy setting. If you're not both into it, it is not as enjoyable, but many enjoy it to the extent where they buy all those Sexy Nurse/Raunchy Policeman/Submissive Soldier costumes to play with. You don't have to buy those, but it makes it kinkier for some if they do. Something to think about.
Also, for some Roleplay, as mentioned above, toys and fetish is a requirement. BDSM with sub/dom play or pup play almost always involves some form of gear, even the most basic one like the collar.
With Fetish, it is a bit trickier because Fetish can be practically anything for people. There are some more or less frequent ones (armpits, food, licking, smell), but there could also be unusual specific ones, like liking to lick naval piercings or something. Your "cum everywhere" thing could be one of those, though I am not entirely sure what you mean by "everywhere" (face? body? bed? room?)
Key here is that you and your partner need to have a conversation about it, see if you have any fantasies or unusual turn-ons and if you could include those in your sex plays. More on fetish here: https://www.advocate.com/love-and-sex/2016/3/04/36-fetishes-every-gay-man-should-know
There are some other more extreme "threesome" options, but those are not for everyone, depending on the nature and arrangements of your relationship, so I will not discuss those here.
Apart from that, do you own a sex swing?
And if you need more…fundamental help, there is this:
https://www.amazon.com/Kinky-Gay-Sex-Game-Plan/dp/3867876991 -
I light cbt, you don't have to do anything crazy. As long as you have fun it's all good. :cheers:
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Try drinking your partner's piss ;D