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    [Grindr, Pics attached] What am I doing wrong!? Can't get laid.

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      blkbnnyc last edited by

      definitely try adam4adam.  Used to live in NYC and had lots of luck with it…you are hot, especially the ass pic.  I'd eat and fuck it all night...

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        nancledra53 last edited by

        After a quick look at your photo's I'd advise a frontal pic rather than butt pics. Bottoms seem to think tops want to see the butt, or worse their hole. This top guy wants to see what is up front.

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          raphjd Forum Administrator last edited by

          @nancledra53:

          After a quick look at your photo's I'd advise a frontal pic rather than butt pics. Bottoms seem to think tops want to see the butt, or worse their hole. This top guy wants to see what is up front.

          I totally agree.

          I don't want to see anyone's stink eye.  Butts are part of the total picture, not the main thing.

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            spam17 last edited by

            @nancledra53:

            After a quick look at your photo's I'd advise a frontal pic rather than butt pics. Bottoms seem to think tops want to see the butt, or worse their hole. This top guy wants to see what is up front.

            I would agree!

            ;D

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              spam17 last edited by

              @raphjd:

              @nancledra53:

              After a quick look at your photo's I'd advise a frontal pic rather than butt pics. Bottoms seem to think tops want to see the butt, or worse their hole. This top guy wants to see what is up front.

              I totally agree.

              I don't want to see anyone's stink eye.   Butts are part of the total picture, not the main thing.

              B.t.w. Wrap the butt towel around your cheeks and get ready to laugh!

              !

              ;D

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                takasugi4 last edited by

                I work in NYC and I would love to top you. And as others have suggested try "the cock" or some other gay bar.

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                  Lynxlux92 last edited by

                  That body tho. :cheesy2:
                  Grindr is greasy anyways there are alot of thirsty guys with no quality.
                  I don't mind tinder tho. I find more quality guys on there.

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                    motri last edited by

                    @cubtellak:

                    Grinder pics and porn for many relieve the need for physical sex as they can jerk off and fantasise over them and then get on with their lives. By sending people pictures of your ass or cock there is nothing left to find out so they can wank off and no need to meet. Personally I find dating apps mostly a waste of time and get most sex meeting people physically. Saunas offer the best option for quick sex as everyone there is there for the same purpose. If you really must use apps then "less is more", don't show your cock or ass and if you must then obscure it so its teasing. Keep your shorts on with hard on etc. Your face pics are very much like everyone elses so try to be different here too and less pics, one or two are enough. Give little and you will get back lots. Good luck

                    legit god advice. didnt learn this until way later on

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                      hylas last edited by

                      The pictures, text, and profile are all fine. None of it would particularly stand out to me, but it's all fine.

                      As some have already pointed out, you're probably Asian, right? I am as well. It's fuuuucked up, but the truth is: we're not a very popular ethnicity. We just have to send out a lot more messages until we find someone. Yes, it suuuuucks.

                      And yeah, if you're only hitting up white guys, try expanding your taste in men.

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                        motri last edited by

                        @hylas:

                        The pictures, text, and profile are all fine. None of it would particularly stand out to me, but it's all fine.

                        As some have already pointed out, you're probably Asian, right? I am as well. It's fuuuucked up, but the truth is: we're not a very popular ethnicity. We just have to send out a lot more messages until we find someone. Yes, it suuuuucks.

                        And yeah, if you're only hitting up white guys, try expanding your taste in men.

                        holy shit seriously?! well there goes more of my delusion of getting married in new Zealand when i get there :blownose: :blownose: :blownose:

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                          Josh99 last edited by

                          Kinda nice pics, although I tend to have more interest in guys that post up less 'posed' photos and more natural photos and then if getting sent more,  in a number of different places or outfits, if they are all the same place in the same outfit then my mind begins to doubt if they are from the guy i'm messaging.

                          Don't send the butt pics, unless you're specifically asked for it, I mean you don't wanna give all the goods away too soon. If its on Grindr, then I guess 80% are time wasters wanting wank bank pics!  Also, on Grindr be as blunt as possible with what you want, like  'looking to fuck a juicy ass right now'  I hate it when I message a guy with an interesting if slightly vague profile and find he's just there for the chat and isn't clear what he wants or what he doesn't want.

                          I'm not sure about the race issue that people are bringing up, I've not really experienced it in that way.  I'm a white guy and do like a bit of variety in my sexual partners.  I mean I don't just read one book over and over again or watch just the one tv show over and over or eat just carrots for every meal on every day. Variety is a wonderful thing,  make the most of it before it's too late.

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