Is there anyone +25 here and still virgin?
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I'm a 28yo virgin guy and it's so hard to find someone like.
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Why are you waiting?
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Yes 26 and a virgin. It's complicated. It's hard to find a guy attracted to me and I have very pushy sex preferences. I don't like anal sex.
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I am 26 and turning 27 in August and I am still a virgin.. Why I am virgin? Because i am living in a country where being gay is crime and cause up to 16 years of jail. But at the same time no one ever has been jailed here for being gay. Finding guy for sex is easy than finding anything else here through Grindr and other sources but i am still virgin as i am afraid to go with some stranger at his place
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I certainly am. But I can't quite understand the point of the thread, like do you want to know an specify on a certain topic or conduct, a way of life, how a virgin look over things different than those who had sex experience?
but i am still virgin as i am afraid to go with some stranger at his place
Take the risk.
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Technically I'm not a virgin, I just haven't had sex for 18 years and counting …
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I am 26 and turning 27 in August and I am still a virgin.. Why I am virgin? Because i am living in a country where being gay is crime and cause up to 16 years of jail. But at the same time no one ever has been jailed here for being gay. Finding guy for sex is easy than finding anything else here through Grindr and other sources but i am still virgin as i am afraid to go with some stranger at his place
You're right of being careful man.
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Why are you waiting?
Well, I'm too shy and while a part of me want to have sex, the other part refuse it. I'm fucking complicated.
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27 and virgin.
Why?
Mostly because i had a bussy life and low sex drive until last year… now that i started considerating to visit gay places; i got myself economic issues xP -
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no
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Uh, depends on how you define 'virgin'. I'm 62 and 'technically' a virgin. Have I had sex? Hell yes! just not with women.
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Yes, I'm a 25 years old virgin but I have a reason why I'm still a virgin. The idea of having sex with another person grosses me out a little bit. I like to watch it and jack off to it, but I don't think I'll enjoy doing it.
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Yes, I'm a 25 years old virgin but I have a reason why I'm still a virgin. The idea of having sex with another person grosses me out a little bit. I like to watch it and jack off to it, but I don't think I'll enjoy doing it.
Sometimes I feel the same.
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25 and still a virgin here, mainly because i haven't found a guy who would fuck me.
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Why are you waiting?
Well, I'm too shy and while a part of me want to have sex, the other part refuse it. I'm fucking complicated.
You're not alone! I want to have sexual relationship, yet, I don't wanna (I do, but I'm not looking for it). I have a very religious and homophobic family, and even though I just accepted my sexuality around two or three years ago, I still haven't looked for sex, I'm weird too, I can't stand the thought of having sex with a stranger, even if he's atractive… I'm 28 yo.
Yes, I'm a 25 years old virgin but I have a reason why I'm still a virgin. The idea of having sex with another person grosses me out a little bit. I like to watch it and jack off to it, but I don't think I'll enjoy doing it.
Yes! I feel the same.
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I'm not a virgin, but anal sex doesn't do anything for me, and I avoid it like the plague.
I much prefer foreplay
But trying to find someone else like me is difficult (singe for 7 years). -
I am 29 soon 30. Chinese potato queen! Several sex experiences with Occidental guys but never down to anal level. Tried a few times, but still not ready. Think I am still into fucking but should be the one beloved.
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I'm not virgin with girls since 17, married to woman and still attracted to guys but never found any gay guy who deserves my ass. I'm 24
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I think all of you that are not having sex cause you think you won't like it or cause you are shy or afraid of it should TAKE A RISK and try it anyway. You have nothing to lose, only to gain if you do that. Why? Because when you try it then you'll know for sure how you really feel when having sex and what you really want from sex and what you don't want, what you need and what you don't need.
If you don't take a risk you have already failed, if you try and you don't like it, you have gained a lot cause you know lots of stuff about your sexuality right now for sure. -
And in order to find someone with whom you'd feel nice during sex, someone who will accept you - is to go to some dating gay sites (planetromeo, grindr, etc.) and to write about yourself as much as you can completely honestly. Cause if you honestly write about what you are afraid of and what kind of guy you'd like to date and what you need to feel safe and horny and all that - then guess what? All the guys who can't accept you like that will vanish from you and those who accept you will send you a message and want to meet with you and get to know you.
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So if you think you have some special needs/problems or something, you need to write that in your info so others can know this and trust me that there are people who will read that info of yours and who will be completely okay with your need/s so they'll message you and probably tell you that they really appreciate your honesty and that they are the ones able to meet that need of yours and they'll wanna meet you.
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So whether you just wanna have sex immediately with someone or you first wanna get to know him in person on coffee or something, it's always the same - you need to honestly write as much as you can about yourself and you'll find a person that have nothing against your need/want/problem and that's how you'll find a guy with whom you can feel nice during sex.
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If you don't write about yourself, about your needs/wants/problems then you probably won't find anyone, especially if you have some special wants/needs/problems because people need to know information about you so they can see if they are okay with you and since there always are people who are gonna be okay with the way you are (no matter the way you are) the right person will message you and you'll be able to enjoy time with that person cause that person will be patient & understanding with you and will accept you the way you are!
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Remember that you need to find only 1 right person, only 1… you really think that's impossible?! If you do, please create your profiles on dating gay websites anyway - write a lot about yourself and upload your pictures (with or without face, naked or in clothes - depending on whether you're looking for immediate sex, getting to know someone before sex or looking for your mate) and see the magic happening!
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And if you're afraid (shy, etc)- there's nothing wrong with feeling afraid - almost everyone is afraid of meeting someone new to a certain extent (many don't want to admit it so you have an impression that they are fearless or something) but the difference between those people (who are both afraid) is that some people do it anyway (they take a risk) and that's how they discover more about what they like/don't like, want/don't want, need/don't need etc and after awhile they find what they were looking for... and some people don't try it cause they are afraid - so they stay on the same place all the time and they won't move from that place untill they embrace their fear and try what they are afraid of anyway - then they'll be much happier even if they didn't like the experience they had (cause now they know what they don't like so they will now be able to going in direction of what they do like instead)...
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