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    How old where you when you came out?

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        Benefitboy
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        Mmm i was 10 years old when i find out i liked guy since me and my Neighbors nephew had sex the night i turn 10 years old that continued for 8 years but apparently my mom already knew when i told her at 11

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          RussCole
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          It was somewhere about 14. And at that time have found out that I'm in scat, too (but this is a story from another book).
          I suppose, everyone knows that feeling when you fell yourself alone with your interests (especially in such intolerant to LGBT country as Russia). I felt so. But soon I have realized that I am not and there are a lot of people in my city who have the same problems as I do (humiliating and hating and so on).
          I thought in different times (now I am 19) that I am pan- and homosexual. But now I realize that I am bisexual, but men attracting me more.
          Thanks for your attention :cheers: 😉

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            quocnamvl01
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            26 ys

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              Oscarbingham
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              14

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                fourluo
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                ….um...I guess the 4th year of college??????maybe21 or 22....My mum found the chat history of mine...so I got outed

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                  lexluthor88
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                  I first came out when I was 18 to my chemistry lab partner, who ultimately ended up being one of my best friends  ;D

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                    hotpsguy
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                    I was 15 and I had a boyfriend who was 26.  There was no drama with family, they just accepted it and we moved on to the next topic…I am very lucky to have had this kind of experience and thankful for the loving and understanding relationship I had with my parents, especially my father. He was the coolest dad ever. :thankyou:

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                      aushook
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                      I'm pretty sure I was 14 when I came out to my fam…. not the best experience but oh well.... they're over it. my dad was like it's ok, I know, but you need to be straight...  ::)

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                        emmy
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                        19. Came out to friends first.

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                          argm
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                          23, to my hardcore Evangelical folks. My dad's a pastor too. I never considered remaining closeted as an option.

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                            Gothicred
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                            I was like 18 and in a relationship. I wanted to stop feeling imprisoned in my own home.

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                              son2batman
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                              19 finally got the guts to go to a gay bar

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                                hugehd
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                                26 yo

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                                  spam17
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                                  @argm:

                                  23, to my hardcore Evangelical folks. My dad's a pastor too. I never considered remaining closeted as an option.

                                  Had you any trouble afterwards?

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                                    harry3500
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                                    I was about 21 years old during a small party with some friends.

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                                      siimonicus
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                                      @groningen89:

                                      I never came out.  I was raised in a modern environment where I never realized that as a kid you had to tell someone your sexual preference. I just one day introduced my boyfriend to people and people reacted the same was as if it were a girlfriend.

                                      Wow man, that is just perfect! I wish it was that way for all of us.

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                                        vicorebeldia
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                                        I was 20 and the first person was my mom. She already knew somehow, but it felt so good telling her and she was very supportive.  :love:

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                                          Oscarbingham
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                                          14 yo my family, 21 yo the world (In a TV interview).

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                                            Oscarbingham
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                                            21 in local TV. Would do It again.

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                                              markramtot
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                                              I was 21 when I came out to my mom. I didn't have a choice when he asked me things about my "friend" that keeps on visiting. Thank God she's the coolest mom ever. I love you mom  :love: Although you'll probably never see this post  ;D

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