Sleeping with married men IS NOT OKAY.
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A guy I know is in the closet and he prefers having sex with married men because he knows they are more secretive and so it's less likely he'll be found out. Some gay guys are actually pretty vindictive.
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A guy I know is in the closet and he prefers having sex with married men because he knows they are more secretive and so it's less likely he'll be found out. Some gay guys are actually pretty vindictive.
both true and deeply sad/bleak
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A guy I know is in the closet and he prefers having sex with married men because he knows they are more secretive and so it's less likely he'll be found out. Some gay guys are actually pretty vindictive.
both true and deeply sad/bleak
Agreed, everytime I was approached or contacted by some guy who later presented himself as married I found myself asking him:
- What would your wife think about this?
- She does not have a clue.
- Yeah, sure, whatever. ::)
That double life, I cannot understandt it, really, I fail everytime I tried.
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in my humble opinion, one should NOT get involved with a married man.Even if he wants him and find him attractive,one must not so not do this.Even if someone is not emotional and all and does not care and does one-night stands he shouldn't.
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Honestly I don't believe in relationships with closeted married men.
Because in this case there might be an innocent third party that might be harmed (kids, a truly unknowing wife). In this case, the married man and the one who cheats with are just narcissistic pricks.
Regarding the OP's post his friend seems to actually ONLY SLEEP WITH married men. In this case it seems more like an unhealthy fixation that goes beyond the harmless fetish area.
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I would never ask a guy if he is married. Not my business.
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I always put in on the married party because after all, they're the ones who took vows so if I sleep with a married man, it's on him, not me. I took no vows to be faithful. That said, I think it varies from person to person and marriage to marriage.
I can imagine circumstances where it is ok to sleep with someone who is married. That doesn't mean it's always okay, but it also doesn't mean it's always wrong.
When you're talking about things as complicated and complex as human relationships, absolutes won't get you very far.
