Consensual non-consent

pedro30

Hi all.

I would like to ask you if anyone is interested, or even try, this branch of BDSM: consensual non-consent.

Basically, you agree with your partner the absolute limits of a BDSM session (thinks like duration, no blood, no scat, no marks, no drugs…). But once the session has started, the sub cannot stop it. The master won't listen to the sub, there is no safeword, no planning of the session. The master can do whatever he wishes within the agreed limits.

Obviously is a dangerous thing to do and only experienced masters and subs should do it, as amateurs may say "oh, I heard that double fist fucking is great, I want it', and then you may find when you are tied down and gagged that you cannot bear even 4 fingers and you cannot stop it.

For what I read, sometimes it is rather soft (bondage with tickling and milking, for example), but some players are looking for extreme experiences (kidnapped for a week with just a few very hard limits like no permanent mark or damage).

About videos of this, the only ones I know are from Shotgun (I'm think they have been removed from GT). In those videos you can see that the sub is told that the master won't stop, they agree, and the fun begins.

Have you had any experiences about this? maybe a friend? Some personal stories to share? Fantasies maybe?

Thanks!

raphjd

I'm not into this kind of thing, but I know a couple that does the "kidnap and rape" thing.

pedro30

Thanks raphjd. Yes, kidnapping and raping seems to be in the usual consensual non-consent practices. Both are very relative, because you agreed to it, but once it starts you don't control it.

Can you share with us some of their experiences? Do they practice it very often? Maybe they have a blog

Thank you!

raphjd

I don't really know much about it other than that they enjoy it. The topic came up while watching an episode of House MD that featured it.

They take turns on who's the aggressor and who's the "victim".

pedro30

I thought you meant a couple doing this to a third person, but now I know what you meant. In that case, I suppose that you trust the partner a lot but the surprise factor diminishes… in any case, it would be nice to hear from them

Thanks!