Porn stars who don't love their fans
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Recently I have started to feel like that one certain porn star doesn't seem to like having me as a fan, the reason why I am not saying this persons name is because he hasn't really confirm that for me but I feel like it's a gut instincts, but thinking about this made me wonder if there are any other porn stars who don't love and appreciate their fanbase, Does anyone else one here experience this kind of scenario before?
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Recently I have started to feel like that one certain porn star doesn't seem to like having me as a fan, the reason why I am not saying this persons name is because he hasn't really confirm that for me but I feel like it's a gut instincts, but thinking about this made me wonder if there are any other porn stars who don't love and appreciate their fanbase, Does anyone else one here experience this kind of scenario before?
Well, you're not giving much background on why you think that, but I imagine there has been some communication between you and the porn actor? Sounds like perhaps he is being polite and you should trust your gut instinct and think about it from his perspective.
Any kind of actor should appreciate their fans in general for providing an audience for their work but it is a bit much to expect any kind of one-on-one interaction beyond comments in a live video stream or similar situation such as a publicity appearance at a club that they participate in for that purpose. Even in those situations, too much attention from any one fan is inappropriate. To ask that they "love" their fans or even like them on a personal, one-to-one basis, is too much to expect.
Porn actors in particular are no doubt subjected to a lot of inappropriate attention and comments from particular fans. They probably get tired of it quickly and are even worried by it at times. There is an illusion of intimacy that is entirely one-way from the fan to the actor. It's a job, he has his own life, and he can't be buddies with all of his fans. There are a lot of nuts out there.
Imagine that instead of a porn actor, you were talking about a cashier at the grocery store or the waiter at a restaurant. The porn actor has as much right to privacy and a limit on personal interaction as they do.
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yeah i agree, we need more context.
it's really nice when I get a retweet or a like or even a reply from a porn star i love (i will say… Cain Marko, Cutler X, Calhoun Sawyer, Eli Hunter, Leo Forte, Pierce Paris, Adam Russo... and some others I can't remember now, have been very sweet on twitter). if i don't get those things from a porn star than I'm not mad about it. Because i can only imagine what their dm's and their @'s look like.
BUT i will also say... if you aren't giving them incentive to "love" you than they won't. ie. $$$
OP i do understand what you're saying (i think) but we just need more context to discuss it.