Does Size Matter? Hmmmm. . . Yes, No, Maybe???
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CelticMuscle:
Personally, size does not matter to me for the most part. It's unfortunate that size is extremely important to some gay men. It is somewhat understandable if someone is a bottom and he needs a little size to enjoy the activity, but the way some guys talk, even some of my friends, is pretty much horrific to me.
Chase21:
I equate it to straight guys and women's breasts. All the straight guys that I hang out with talk about this girl's rack, and that girl's double dds. It baffles me that gay men get ridiculed for talking about another guy's johnson, but never a word about what straight men do.
GymLocker:
I laugh when I read the laundry lists…younger, older, muscle, slim, top, bottom, cut, uncut, blue eyes, brown eyes, and all the other things that we ultimately have no control over...it's so important to some....so shallow...
And the stuff that really matters, the stuff that we do have control over, our disposition, our ability to love, our intellect, our ability to support ourselves, our personal interests, hobbies, our independence from substance abuse...seems to matter so little.
Men are visual creatures....but who wants to date a creature???
Papibear:
at the end of the day, it's "Arroz con Pollo" everyday with the same man. Too big becomes a bit much. Too small, not enough.
Just right it has to be.
Evan:
No, dick size doesn't matter to me at all. I always say if I like you enough to wanna see you naked, that means I've come to the point where I couldn't care less what your equipment looks like.
And if anyone ever judges you based on the size of your penis, then that's not someone you want to have sex with anyway .
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Snickerdude:
BIG DICKS are like when the soda machine spits out an extra soda at the vending machine, an extra Snickers. Secretly…you were hoping it would happen, but you would have been just as satisfied had it not. Mmmmmmm, but you're gladddd it did!! :cheers:
zachariaki:
I love guy with big dick. Since I am East Asian, guys with big dick are rare here. Big dick guy are usually Westerner, Caucasian, Black , Asian from West Asia,Arab, India and Pakistanis etc. However, a lot of guy with bigger dick are kinda limp and not as hard as smaller size guys. You need to be in excellent health shape to carry such a big tool. They nothing worst than a guys with big dick but limpy and not so hard.
Hotboi:
What really matters is good sex. Some people just assume that a bigger penis will hit the right spot. Well, yes and no.
Now, if guys were willing to use penis extenders, the world would be a very different place. I've wanted to suggest them to several exs, but never knew how to raise the subject without harming their self esteem.
Boeyn Aerow:
Honestly, few guys are really size queens (into large endowments). While the idea of it in erotica is pretty hot, the reality is that few people are able to accept such a generous endowment. Thus much of it is wasted in bed.
Porn skews reality, most of the guys picked to be 'actors' (and I use that word very loosely) are picked because of their extraordinarily sized member. Porn 'writers' (seriously there are people who write the 'scripts') focus on impossible situations wherever possible - this is why condoms magically appear and no porn star has to take a break and do the tedious task of putting on the condom.
Assuming you are in a relationship the sex is going to be good to great regardless of the size of the endowments because in a relationship there is commitment, love and lots of other things that make sex special.
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drypin:
You could be hung like my pinky and it wouldn't matter. I imagine myself being held in those sexy arms of and… swoon.
Bshami:
Not ashamed to say that I freak out a bit when I see a guy hung like a horse… looks lovely, but must be painful to ride.
Anonymous:
Some guys hate certain body types (fat vs muscle), certain mannerisms, certain other things. Dick size is just another factor. Real relationships are more than sexual, though, so keep in mind everything you want and know that you AND your partner have to make concessions, or else it's not going to work. But it never hurts to ask for advice, consolation, or anything. With luck you'll get more answers.
putresVigil
While I have little experience compared to most, I feel I am more a top when it comes to sex and my view tends to be that so long as I can give you pleasure through it and we are emotionally compatible enough for me to engage you, sexually, I will think it is attractive, regardless of how big or small it is. In the case of a guy who seems sensitive about his size, the only difference might be that I would be much more nurturing and reassuring in coitus to keep him in the moment with me complimenting how soft the skin of it is when touching it, and so on, between sweet nothings and small kisses. But I am a romantic type so I can't speak for all - likely it is like blond hair: some dig it, some won't,
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bigger is better!!!
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I regard big dick as a bonus, not as a fundamental thing. But of course, bonuses are always awesome, aren't they? hahaha
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Big dick is a bonus, but I prefer attractive men with normal sized cock rather than a monster cock on a guy so ugly I cannot stand him… for me the attractiveness of a big cock is purely "aesthetic"... I'd like to touch and see one for real, but I don't think I would go beyond that...