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      p90 last edited by

      i didnt know the guy, i dont even use the forums but i have just been reading though this and i am truely moved by the amount of people how knew him though this site and hope that he rests in peace.

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        blackdid last edited by

        Thanks for your kind message, p90
        You see, days and weeks pass by and Tim can't be forgotten.
        I'm sure others feel the same way, each time I login here I have a thought for him.

        He liked to help with all his heart, and he shared with you his happiness, making you feel happy.
        How do you want to forget a guy that was so kind, moving and generous ?

        "If you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love"  (Mother Teresa)
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        • leatherbear
          leatherbear last edited by

          He was simply the best friend a person could hope to have.

          I will try to get in touch with the detectives this week for an update on this situation.

          ![](https://www.gaytorrent.ru/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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          • leatherbear
            leatherbear last edited by

            I have left messages for the detective handling Tim's death for 3 weeks now with no reply from him. I will continue to call until I get an answer from them.

            Sorry for the lack of new information. :cry2:

            ![](https://www.gaytorrent.ru/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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              beercan last edited by

              hopefully the case can close with a satisfactory conclusion, they would be doing tim justice by unearthing the truth.

              :cry2:

              I still think of Tim from time to time, trying to remember him without feeling that sense of loss.

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                blackdid last edited by

                @beercan:

                I still think of Tim from time to time, trying to remember him without feeling that sense of loss.

                Nice thought  :hug2:

                "If you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love"  (Mother Teresa)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                      .

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                  fresnopup last edited by

                  Reading about the circumstances of Tim's death prompts me to suggest that we all reflect on our relationships,  look into our heads and hearts and be especially, lovingly kind to someone tonight.

                  fresnopup

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                    Gr1zz last edited by

                    I know it's been a while, but I found this about Tim, and thought I should share… it's been a year, and this is the most recent thing I could find, although LancasterOnline has a RSS feed that was last updated in June...

                    hxxp://lancasteronline.com/article/local/353908_Questions-in-man-s-death.html

                    Apparently, they keep murder cases open for 100 years, according to

                    hxxp://lancasteronline.com/article/local/370107_Cold-cases-remain-on-the-books.html

                    I can't help but be saddened, when I see some of his posts here, and think of the person behind them.  He clearly had a kind and generous soul, and the gap that his passing created continues to be felt, even as time goes on.  The only consolation I can think of is that he must have been needed more someplace else.

                    [you], are you staring at my crotch?

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                    • leatherbear
                      leatherbear last edited by

                      Thank you for this update. I guess I dropped the ball on following this up as I said I would. The local police just quit talking to me and never returned my calls.

                      Tim was an incredible person to know and have as a friend. I miss him much and always will. :cry2:

                      ![](https://www.gaytorrent.ru/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                      • MrMazda
                        MrMazda Global Moderator last edited by

                        Michael…. Did I not call it from the get go?

                        This only confirms that what I saw in the short while after this all went down was correct. I know EXACTLY what happened, down to and including what was used too.... This is where having a 6th sense is sometimes a curse.

                        As for the "whodunnit" part.... Again this is something that Tim has shown me before I helped him cross over to where he wanted to be. One thing that I will say is there's a reason why his "so called" lover disappeared real fast after the events took place. There's much more to the story than meets the eye unfortunately, and unless they involve someone like Sylvia Brown, I sadly don't think that the whole story will ever be fully known to the authorities. In this case, I'm quite certain that alcohol was most definitely NOT a factor on Tim's account. To this day I can still see that light coloured staircase, leading to the concrete floor below, not far from a computer desk where the "main event" took place.

                        What Tim showed me most definitely made it clear to me in no uncertain terms that this was neither an accident, nor was it self-defence.

                        Whap The User
                        The only difference between martyrdom and suicide is press coverage!

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                        • leatherbear
                          leatherbear last edited by

                          :cry2: Tomorrow is the 2nd anniversary of Tim's passing  :cry2:

                          I thought I would Bump this topic for that reason alone but there is also a new post from farkme who remembered Tim with fondness : https://forum.gaytorrent.ru/index.php?topic=18335

                          This was a tragic and shocking experience for me and many others as well at the time. To know Tim was a gift of special value that will never be forgotten.

                          ![](https://www.gaytorrent.ru/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                            farkme last edited by

                            Ive read that this case is still unsolved along with 8 other deaths being investigated by the police 😞

                            hxxp://lipnews.com/unsolved-murders-2/

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                            • leatherbear
                              leatherbear last edited by

                              Just after Tim's death I spoke with a detective for a while and he seemed to care at the time. But shortly  after he stopped taking my calls and did not return calls from messages left for him by me. This must be one Screwed Up police department. Glad I don't live there frankly.

                              ![](https://www.gaytorrent.ru/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                                farkme last edited by

                                is there like a county/state/federal body to complain to?

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                                  agis last edited by

                                  I answer here of course  even if I didn't meet Tim (mebbe… because in the web travel where the names change more easily I could have met him under another name).
                                  Personally, every time I lose in this here and now a known person, a BF, a beloved and -why not?- even an hated one or a person I was introduced to by someone's or something else memory or testimony, I'm always sent back to a thought written 1800 years ago by the emperor Marcus Aurelius:

                                  "Even if you had to live 3000 years or ten times more, remember anyway that nobody lives another life but the one she/he/it* is losing and nobody loses another life but the one she/he/it* is living"

                                  • since the emperor didn't use exactly this way the "she/he/it" could be taken as a choice of mine.

                                  Of course the emperor's diagnosis called for remedies to this pain and many of them - the persistence in a metaphysical or objective elsewhere, the persistence in ourselves with the memory…- have already been remembered by you all.

                                  So here I could put now a dash and a little hole

                                  -°

                                  just to say: yes, I was here and then passed away.

                                  Bye Tim 🙂

                                  age  quod agis

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                                    beercan last edited by

                                    :cry2:

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                                      farkme last edited by

                                      Can't believe its been almost 3 years … and we still have no closure from the police investigation.

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