I have uploaded, probably, over 3,000 torrents to Pirate Bay, Empornium, Mini-Nova, etc., because uploading to those sites is near instant and downloads by those members are fast and furious. While here I've tried many times to offer uploads only to find them stuck in the approval shute far too long. I pay an enormous amount of money for a static fast broadband up/download pipeline and to see it idle costs me money. If I upload four "requested" torrents before going to bed then wake up eight hours later only to see those uploads are still "waiting for approval" I've lost a lot of time and wasted bandwidth. And yes, I know I can use "auto-approval" but I shouldn't have to. NO uploader should have to grovel to the host for approval. The site is only as good as the product and if I can get that product up on Pirate Bay within minutes and see it being distributed to thousands then the desire to upload here and wait and wait and wait is lost.
Thus I pulled all four of my uploads this morning and I just won't bother to try again. GayTorrent.ru must review their upload approval policy and act much faster if they want the site to remain viable and their members to stay true. Uploaders have little to no incentive to support the site other then their desire to help other gay members and we can help other gay people through Pirate Bay, Empornium, Mini-Nova, etc., much faster and with more satisfaction.