@flozen:

Our increasingly diverse culture helps free us from "norms" in body hair styles, gay or straight.

Do what seems comfortable for you, and consider the amount of maintenance you can support, as well as your tendency for ingrown hairs or skin irritation, etc.  Follow your own muse.  Me, I like it natural.

Be yourself!    ;D

@eobox91103:

I don't like natural hair being shaved:  It leaves stubble, razor burn, and IMHO looks weird.

Exactly.
I'm a little bit hairy, and I don't like to shave. I just trim.
I'd rather leave as close as natural.
But there will always be people who won't mind a shaved guy.

I've been there – I think of myself as biromantic and homosexual. Due to this, I call myself gay....and that is because I could never marry a woman and resist having sex with men. Thus, I only plan on having relationships with men.

Leave him intact until he reaches the age of reason then let him decide! The only reason to have it done is to solve issues with Peyronie's disease If a person showers daily and pulls back the foreskin there is no reason to mangle their dick!

@popsy619:

I am debating on whether this would be a good body trimmer: https://www.usa.philips.com/c-m-pe/body-groomers

Any advice?

Did you try the above trimmer or used another one?

If he thinks touching his own dick is gay, he's got bigger mental problems than are being displayed here.

The mental knots straight men tie themselves, I honestly don't know how some of them get through the day.

I am a bottom. If it's just fucking, I don't usually need to do any preparation. When I go to the washroom, I do spend probably as much time wiping as I do sitting on the toilet though. If the sex is planned then I will shower and wash the area well first.

If rimming is involved, then shower ahead of time is a must for me.

@flozen:

While I don't have a specific brand to recommend, there's a lot of good info in this catch-all article about methods of controlling / removing nose hair:

https://www.healthline.com/health/nose-hair-removal

I think the most important message – in this era of people going bare as a baby everywhere -- is that the interior nose hairs serve an important health purpose, basically as a particle filter.

Efforts at control should focus mainly on the tips of nose hairs that protrude, and those near the entrance of the nose -- not deeper inside.

I thought deeper is better  :cheesy2:

Kidding.

In a word, no.

In more words, it can be argued that meeting in parks and restrooms was the "only option" years (and years) ago.

Today almost all gays in the developed world (and 100 percent of your audience here) has access to the Internet, with sites that allow for local hook-ups, actual dating, community groups, etc.

Public bathrooms are still used as a commonplace device in porn movies, a nostalgic carryover for some.  And if you need more, there are gay bars, in some bigger cities, where you can engage in "bathroom theme nights" – for all that implies.

I just remember being in a major city park last summer, washing up after a piss, when two guys starting reciprocating blowjobs in an open stall.  A father walked in, leading his young son by the hand, and turned him around so fast it looked like his wrist would snap.

So at the risk of repeating myself, no.

no, i did it a few times but it looks weird, you can see black spots(roots)

How about you post something first?  :cheesy2: :cool2:

shower always

Definitely without.

Already a thread about this as well. As a newbie you might want to scan the posts prior to staring a new topic on the same issue. 🙂

https://forum.gaytorrent.ru/index.php?topic=48091.0

I've been using a lot of Hanz de Fuko Quicksand lately. Good stuff.

Just do not use Antibacterial soap on a regular basis! There is some bacteria on your skin you need to stay healty has crazy as it sounds.